How Often Do You Argue With Your Partner?

[SarichFan]

My hand and I go at it every once in a while... But somehow I always win.

[Crazy Flamer]

Originally Posted by BBQorMILDEW

Maybe back in the 40's i could do that, but i am not going to sleep in a 6X9 on account of this crazy bitch..

I didn't mean physically, I would never condone violence even in your case. And trust me, I've been in your shoes. But I'm sure you can send her a creative message that this sort of behavior from her will not be tolerated.

[CaptainCrunch]

Originally Posted by BBQorMILDEW

Well guys i finally have a new update on my crazy ex girlfriend..

If you havent read the earlier posts please feel free to do so...

I get home from pool last night and all of my windows are smashed at my house, as well as my car, dents in the hood, tires slashed.

I have filed out a police report this morning, but the cops have no proof on who did this.. I told them about my ex and previous history and they tell me that they will investigate the situation.

So thankfully i do have home owners insurance but the dents and auto glass insurance but no tire insurance. So basically i have to cough up around 1500 to fix my car.. I am at wits end with this girl and will be looking to move to a new neighbourhood to put this behind me..

Word of advice to anyone.... .... If you know in your heart that your girlfriend is crazy Get out of the relationship as QUICK as humanly possible.

Or else your life will be ruined (short term)

If she has a dog or cat

nail it to her front door

(I kid I kid)

[goaliegirl]

Me and my Husband really only fight when he is drunk (he is very beligerent when drinking),which is about 2 or 3 times a yr with 2 of the 3 being over the Christmas Holidays mostly thanks to Christmas partys. We do have petty little arguments about 2 or 3 times a month but they are very minor mostly about who forgot to take the garbage out ect

[rubecube]

Originally Posted by goaliegirl

Me and my Husband really only fight when he is drunk (he is very beligerent when drinking),which is about 2 or 3 times a yr with 2 of the 3 being over the Christmas Holidays mostly thanks to Christmas partys. We do have petty little arguments about 2 or 3 times a month but they are very minor mostly about who forgot to take the garbage out ect

I'm not going to lie, I get an absolute kick out of being a beligerent ass. The girl I'm seeing thinks it's funny and I'm convinced that's why she buys me rum when we hang out. If he's only doing it a couple times a year then that's pretty good.

[4X4]

Originally Posted by rubecube

I'm not going to lie, I get an absolute kick out of being a beligerent ass. The girl I'm seeing thinks it's funny and I'm convinced that's why she buys me rum when we hang out. If he's only doing it a couple times a year then that's pretty good.

Maybe she buys you rum because you threatened her the last time you were being a beligerent ass...

[Antithesis]

We rarely have fights or arguments really, bicker sometimes though I am sure there will be a bit more stress in our lives when the baby is born ...

[Sainters7]

Originally Posted by FlamesAddiction

I believe you because I don't fight with my partner either. I used to fight with my ex all the time though, and if "not fighting" is "not normal", then I much prefer to be an abnormal relationship.

I'm not near into as long a relationship as you are, but I've been dating a girl for 14 months now and we've never even once had an argument. Not saying there's anything wrong with arguing, I agree its healthy to get things off your chest that are bothering you about the person and vise versa, but nothing's seriously come up yet. It's great(and shocking, considering my last relationship)

[PsYcNeT]

I am absolutely bass-ackwards in relationships.

I am the anti-man, in that I constantly talk about my feelings and opinions like it's going out of style.

My girlfriend plays the guy role, in that she never wants to talk about anything, like, ever.

Having a 'talk' with her about how I feel is the most eye-roll inducing thing of all time.

Despite this, we rarely fight because I've learned from years of traini...err relationships to just shut up and pretend they are right.

Works wonders.

[Dion]

I haven't spoken to my wife in years. I didn't want to interrupt her.

~ Rodney Dangerfield

[jammies]

I like to argue, and I like to win those arguments - but that's why I'm single more often than not.

The best way to "win" an argument with your SO, is to realize when giving in gracefully is your best option, and taking it. Swallowing pride doesn't taste very nice, but you have to be secure enough in yourself to realize that there are battles that are about your core beliefs, and other battles that are about things you won't care about a week from now - so make sure the latter doesn't ruin your relationship.