Stress

[KevanGuy]

Well, my guess is that she didnt tell you cause she didnt want to you freak out on her (looks like she wasnt that far off). So, I dont blame her for not telling you.

[Maritime Q-Scout]

I wouldn't have freaked out on her if she told me when she started seeing the guy.

Went for coffee with her today, told her I was stressed, as she asked me "Are you ok? You don't seem like yourself" but didn't tell her why.

I don't think I'll confront her, I had planned on it, but when the time came, I just didn't. Played out exactly as I wanted it to but then follow through.

That's ok, I'm gonna chalk it up as my fault, stay friends, and move on. Easy? No, but I've done it before, just not this bad.

I think I've reached the point that I'm not gonna worry about it any more.

Two days ago I realized even if she was available now, and was willing to go out with me now, I wouldn't. Just about ready to say "whatever" and move on.

For the record, I wouldn't freak out, it's definately not my nature, she knows that. Biggest freakout I've had in years had been in this thread, and it's easier to type to people you've never met in person, and don't know ANYONE in the situation.

Thanks for listening, and the help guys and gals.

[habernac]

Ah, women....... Glad I'm not in the bullshinguard world of dating anymore. She's not unique, that's for sure. I' ve always been annoyed when people play both ends and aren't honest about it. If they aren't interested, why not just say so, we're all grown ups, right? She's not worth it. And you're a nicer guy than me remaining friends with her. There are better ones out there. Lots of them.

[Gugstanley]

Just send her the link to this thread and get it over with.

[Maritime Q-Scout]

Originally posted by Gugstanley@May 5 2005, 07:06 PM
Just send her the link to this thread and get it over with.

HA!

no way in hell

I've ranted here p*ssed and drunk, said stuff I didn't mean about her

I think I'm ok with it. It was going through my mind the whole time I saw her today. Opted not to bring it up. Like someone said guys and girls think differently. After talking to her last night, today, I don't think she knows what's going on... yet doesn't explain why she hasn't mentioned the boyfriend.

Oh well, live and learn.