Merry Christmas and I'm thankful for all of you.

[RollTideAlumni]

Ok before I go to bed I have to say I'm so sorry for any photos or videos you may have encountered in your research of him. It's beyond humiliating what he's posted online and anything that involved me was totally unauthorized by me. Once I tell you all the story you will maybe understand the type of person he has become better. Good night

[DoubleF]

I'm wondering if RTA doesn't want to share too much, if simply letting us know which parts of Ian's story isn't true may be enough?

Edit: Agree with below, only whatever she is comfortable sharing. Maybe even send the story to Squiggs or dobbles to review before posting.

And to repeat, much props to dobbles and RTA. This situation can't be easy.

[surferguy]

Originally Posted by RollTideAlumni

Ok before I go to bed I have to say I'm so sorry for any photos or videos you may have encountered in your research of him. It's beyond humiliating what he's posted online and anything that involved me was totally unauthorized by me. Once I tell you all the story you will maybe understand the type of person he has become better. Good night

I'm sorry you have had to endure that. This type of thing is inexcusable.

[pylon]

Originally Posted by RollTideAlumni

Ok before I go to bed I have to say I'm so sorry for any photos or videos you may have encountered in your research of him. It's beyond humiliating what he's posted online and anything that involved me was totally unauthorized by me. Once I tell you all the story you will maybe understand the type of person he has become better. Good night

If it's any consolation, the majority of the members here aren't that low. I have no interest in seeing the pictures or videos of either of you that have been uploaded. I know most of the members in this thread share the same view. And to reiterate what others have said. Don't share anything you don't want to. There is no obligation.

[peter12]

Originally Posted by MrMastodonFarm

Well if this is user is who we think she is 2016 is shaping up to be worse for PIMking than 2015 was.

Originally Posted by squiggs96

As much as I've been a leader in finding out information, if you don't want to put something out there, then don't. Everything I've found and posted was freely posted by him. It wasn't always easy to find, but it didn't take a huge effort to find it. Most of us are just a bunch of guys from Calgary, and never met Ian. You dated him. You might run into him again. He has some roid rage. You know he is still reading this thread. Be very careful about what you type out here, please. We don't need to compromise your safety or well being.

Even the thread on the other site where I found your other posts, there were no names given, but I was able to connect enough dots to know it was you. Your username gave no information and you wouldn't even give his name there. You may be wise to refrain from giving out personal details. Feel free to post whatever you want, but don't feel obligated for a bunch of people you've never met. We already think he's a piece of ####. Your posts will likely just reinforce that.

Classy and true. Ian Demler has already gone far and beyond what any normal and moral person would accept as decent behavior. RTA, protect yourself, but if you feel secure, please share what you think is important.

[Wormius]

Is there no legal recourse in the states to have photos published of you online without your permission removed?

One would hope that the planet roid rage wouldn't want any unwanted attention and just honour the request. Or if Ian is reading he would do the right thing and delete them himself.

[ben voyonsdonc]

Originally Posted by RollTideAlumni

Ok before I go to bed I have to say I'm so sorry for any photos or videos you may have encountered in your research of him. It's beyond humiliating what he's posted online and anything that involved me was totally unauthorized by me. Once I tell you all the story you will maybe understand the type of person he has become better. Good night

Anyone who would post unauthorized intimate images of their partner speaks volumes about the type of person that they are. I am really sorry about what you have gone through. I know this sounds harsh but have you considered legal recourse?

[bigtmac19]

I agree RTA please don't post any personal details you aren't comfortable with. We all understand the position you are in. We just want him to stop all his s***ty behaviour.

[fundmark19]

Originally Posted by MRCboicgy

I highly recommend not going down this rabbit hole and googling around for the rest of you.

plus, it's not that impressive, and I feel I can safely say have expertise in this area.

I guess when he said he was going to go chaterbate to make money because he was broke on the steroid forum he was serious

[Dion]

Originally Posted by RollTideAlumni

Ok before I go to bed I have to say I'm so sorry for any photos or videos you may have encountered in your research of him. It's beyond humiliating what he's posted online and anything that involved me was totally unauthorized by me. Once I tell you all the story you will maybe understand the type of person he has become better. Good night

Don't feel pressured into posting details that make you uncomfortable. The last thing we want is for your postings to cause you any uneccessary grief.

[flylock shox]

Maybe it would make more sense for RTA to simply pass her story along to a moderator, or to Dobbles or Squiggs, and have them simply post the jist of the story as it relates to PIMking's account of events.

This thread's moved along pretty feverishly, and it's probably good that it cools off again for the night, and before RTA puts anything out there that she regrets later. Really, we only want/need answers that clarify the truth of the core elements of Ian's story. We don't need her to open up stuff that's uncomfortable or goes beyond that.

[squiggs96]

Ian has two accounts (ian and pimking) on gatorcountry.com. I can still see all the posts he's made from them, but when I click on his profiles it states the user's profile(s) are unavailable. I'm not sure if he's deleted them, made them private, or what not. I can still see the names in the list of members I follow though. Can anyone else see them? He hasn't posted on the roid threads in a few days, but he's been called out for stealing there, and has also said he'll disappear from there shortly.

[malcolmk14]

What a time to go on vacation. Just stayed up till 2 AM here in the Eastern time zone to catch up on this thread. Had no idea this was going on and I am shocked and appalled.

Holy Wannamaker!

Can't wait for tomorrow morning.

[worth]

Do we really need to do this? We got duped, but I don't feel the need to dwell on it. It's not right, but it happens. The guy will get what he deserves if this is the type of life he lives.

[ben voyonsdonc]

Holy cow. Alabama doesn't have a revenge porn law on the books. Florida does though. In Florida, he could get a year in prison for posting images of someone without their permission.

[Hockeyguy15]

And from now on jhunt will call "New Year's Day" "Ian Demler Day".

[Morning Wood]

I feel terrible for RTA... can only imagine how violated she feels from finding out unauthorized media of her has been floating around the Internet. As entertaining as this thread has been, this is a really sad situation we are witnessing. Feel sick to my stomach for her.

[Hemi-Cuda]

In all the epic threads like wannamaker, springs1 and ranch dressing, that one Oiler fan that ragequit several times but kept coming back, this has to be the most dramatic. It's got a very heavy Jerry Springer vibe to it, we just need Ducay and MMF to get into a chair fight now

Though my favorite singular moment on this site was when Bingo got called a CDC paste eating troll, I don't think anything will top that

[flylock shox]

Originally Posted by Morning Wood

I feel terrible for RTA... can only imagine how violated she feels from finding out unauthorized media of her has been floating around the Internet. As entertaining as this thread has been, this is a really sad situation we are witnessing. Feel sick to my stomach for her.

And as much of an adventure as this thread has been, respect for her situation should be our priority going forward. It ain't like any of us are getting our money back, so we're only in this for a better understanding. That's not worth causing real-world hardship to her. It's her call as to how much information she wants to give, but we should make sure not to push things too far.

[dammage79]

Leaving a trail sucks eh PIMKing? What a read these last 26 pages have been.