Odd question about relationships

[Phanuthier]

ok thats enough of my personal life now

back to the thread...

PS : i'll let you guys know if i get a call to move furniture

[albertGQ]

Originally Posted by enthused

After a first kiss?! That would mean that I have had a LOT of boyfriends... at the same time....

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Exactly. In one night at the bar, I guess I could have 3 or 4 girlfriends

[enthused]

Originally Posted by albertGQ

Exactly. In one night at the bar, I guess I could have 3 or 4 girlfriends

You were probably my boyfriend at some point!

[flip]

This thread is getting classier by the second.

[The Goon]

I always thought you could play the field for three months, then crap or get off the pot.

[Traditional_Ale]

Originally Posted by CaptainCrunch

Smashing Pelvis.

Did some chick seriously call it that?

[jammies]

My definition is she's your girlfriend when she can call you up and ask to come over anytime, expect you to say yes, and you don't feel annoyed that she has done so.

[Russic]

Originally Posted by CaptainCrunch

The first time that she walks into the bathroom when your taking a dump without knocking.

Pretty happy my wife and I never started dating then.

[Table 5]

when she stops doing all the nice little things that she did at the start in order to get you to like her....you know you have a relationship. actually, you might even be married.

[Akai-Sesui]

You're dating when you mutually get all giddy at the very idea of seeing each other
You're honey-mooning when you forsake all your friends for the purpose of seeing this other person
You're in a relationship when you return to being who you were prior to dating.

[Table 5]

Originally Posted by Akai-Sesui

You're in a relationship when you return to being who you were prior to dating.

That's a great way to put it.

[sadora]

Hey CP, I didn't want to start another thread with this question so I figured this was the best place to put it and I'll try to keep this down to the details.

So, Saturday night some recently married friends of mine, better friends with the girl, had a party at their house. I met my friend's sister for the first time and hit it off with her right away. So much that we spent the night together in the guest room, not doing anything major but just enough. So we've been talking quite a bit since and are going out on a date tonight. So CP, and I hope you can help to shed some light on this, first of all where is there really good to go on a Tuesday night and my second question, since we've already kissed and slept together, no sex, only slept together what's the protocol for when I greet her? Do I go for kiss on the lips or on the cheek?

I've been single for a while so most of my hook ups in the recent past have been more casual than anything, one nights and such. But since she's a very good friend's sister and since I actually like her I don't really know how to go about this. So any help would be very much appreciated.

[JiriHrdina]

Where to go? Mini-golf and then drinks. It's a perfect combo.
Kiss on the lips? Yes.

[flip]

Originally Posted by sadora

Hey CP, I didn't want to start another thread with this question so I figured this was the best place to put it and I'll try to keep this down to the details.

So, Saturday night some recently married friends of mine, better friends with the girl, had a party at their house. I met my friend's sister for the first time and hit it off with her right away. So much that we spent the night together in the guest room, not doing anything major but just enough. So we've been talking quite a bit since and are going out on a date tonight. So CP, and I hope you can help to shed some light on this, first of all where is there really good to go on a Tuesday night and my second question, since we've already kissed and slept together, no sex, only slept together what's the protocol for when I greet her? Do I go for kiss on the lips or on the cheek?

I've been single for a while so most of my hook ups in the recent past have been more casual than anything, one nights and such. But since she's a very good friend's sister and since I actually like her I don't really know how to go about this. So any help would be very much appreciated.

This is a difficult one to answer. IMO it really depends on how you feel when you greet her. Don't treat her like it is a done deal that you are dating, but definitely act more affectionate than you would on a normal first date. The key here is to immediately squash any awkwardness that might arise out of your pseudo one night stand situation.

As for where to go I always vote for somewhere casual and semi-quiet. I'd probably go to a restaurant that has a lounge. Then you can get food if you want and if not you can just have a few drinks and talk.

[jeremywilhelm]

Originally Posted by sadora

Hey CP, I didn't want to start another thread with this question so I figured this was the best place to put it and I'll try to keep this down to the details.

So, Saturday night some recently married friends of mine, better friends with the girl, had a party at their house. I met my friend's sister for the first time and hit it off with her right away. So much that we spent the night together in the guest room, not doing anything major but just enough. So we've been talking quite a bit since and are going out on a date tonight. So CP, and I hope you can help to shed some light on this, first of all where is there really good to go on a Tuesday night and my second question, since we've already kissed and slept together, no sex, only slept together what's the protocol for when I greet her? Do I go for kiss on the lips or on the cheek?

I've been single for a while so most of my hook ups in the recent past have been more casual than anything, one nights and such. But since she's a very good friend's sister and since I actually like her I don't really know how to go about this. So any help would be very much appreciated.

Lips kiss? Yes, and it will immediately tell you how she feels about where this is going. She doesnt reciprocate, or is hesitant, you got yourself a dabbler.

[flip]

Definitely go for the ass grab though. No matter what the scenario is.

[Singe]

Drunk Skunk...
You're offically in a relationship with her when she starts leaving her back-up box of tampax at your place. She's marking her territory with it, as well as having an emergency kit for those flowing fun days.
From experience.

[Muta]

Originally Posted by sadora

first of all where is there really good to go on a Tuesday night and my second question, since we've already kissed and slept together, no sex, only slept together what's the protocol for when I greet her? Do I go for kiss on the lips or on the cheek?

1) Canadian Pizza Unlimited. $3.00 slices of pizza. Nothing hotter than that.

2) Wear a cape and make her kiss your ring on your finger, you're the king on this date and she must realize.

[sadora]

Originally Posted by flip

This is a difficult one to answer. IMO it really depends on how you feel when you greet her. Don't treat her like it is a done deal that you are dating, but definitely act more affectionate than you would on a normal first date. The key here is to immediately squash any awkwardness that might arise out of your pseudo one night stand situation.

That's my main concern especially since like I said, she is a friend's sister and she has a 7 year old son. I definitely don't want to treat her like a done deal because that could go wrong very quickly.

Somewhere semi-quiet for drinks and talk seems like the best option.

Thanks!

[Biff]

Plow her.

I heard that here somewhere before.