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Originally Posted by CaptainCrunch
How do we know that the friend is underqualified?
Maybe the friend adds tremendous value.
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I've worked with the person before at the organization and within the industry. I was there when the person hired the current GM.
My position was brand new and created specifically for me. It is also one that can be quantified externally. After doing and developing it for 2 years there is, frankly, nobody more qualified than myself to perform the duties. I actually wrote the job description myself.
This, and witnessing the external quality, I can say with absolute confidence this person is objectively less qualified than myself. For the organization and members sake the person better grow into the role.
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Originally Posted by CaptainYooh
Yamer, my advice to you from a long experience - let it go and don't waste your life on petty grievances. Unless you stand to lose contract money that you believe you've earned, it's not worth it, period. And based on your preamble, you don't. It will ONLY make you feel worse. Guaranteed. Move on.
There's one thing that I would suggest you do: call your former GM and in a friendly manner ask him directly if a) you could give his name as a reference and b) if you should worry about giving his name as a reference? Don't bring up the new hiring, don't question your lay-off, don't ask for explanations or reasons. Just secure a good reference. 9 out of 10, you will get it, if for no other reason than guilt feeling he may have over letting you go and free up space to hire a relative.
Best of luck to you.
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Due to the way my termination was handled I was already on the alert that something sinister was going on. I secured a basic letter of reference from the GM shortly afterwards, just in case.
I have listed the person as a reference when it is required (I have other references from my time there, thank Xenu), but I can't control what they may or may not say. This is probably paranoia, but the exit interview was highly inappropriate, which makes them capable of pretty much anything.
Definitely going to stick with the practice of "dismissed for budgetary/financial reasons...last one in, first one out" type response.
There's very little pettiness about this, just more concern for the members. It's the only way I would be justified to any action. However, I'll take your genuine advice to heart. Thank you.