If you are doing a "new build"? Find out when the Insulator(s) are scheduled into your house. Go there on that day and meet the guy who's "running the show". These crews are paid on "piecework" and your house is
no different than any of the other 20 or 30 they will see in the course of the month. Request a "Superseal" vapor-barrier envelope. Request "additional love" during the wall/ceiling batt installation. Request polyurethane sprayfoam to the window and door cavities on your 2 x 6 exterior envelope. Be prepared to buck up 5 browns for this "attention to detail".
You will get your money back in your
first heating season, ...and your house will also be way ahead of the "standard curve" in the summer time. If you can't find someone who speaks fluent English and can understand what you are offering/asking for? Request another crew.
It's your right as a home buyer.
Express your concerns to your builder's rep. Stop work if need be. This is the One and ONLY chance to get this done right. Once the board is up it's "lights out".
I am currently in the trade (insulating new houses) and we "do it right" every day because the Builders and the Drywall Companies
I work for pay me fairly for my efforts.
Be forewarned that this is not the case in most situations.
It's the biggest investment you will ever make. The "trickle down" implications will span over the life of the mortgage you engage. I have done so many of these "back door" deals that it would make your head spin...
Proper window coverings on South/West facing walls are a given. If you have a properly done exterior envelope? ... you are way ahead of the curve.
Food for thought?
All for now, Ron