I wouldn't call a women who doesn't offer to pay for dinner scummy. I would call her still hungry.
Why would she be still hungry unless you take her to a place like McDonald's that charges you for the meal before you get it? Most places give you the bill after you've eaten.
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He just seemed like a very nice person. I loved Squiggy.
It's very simple. If you are doing something that costs money like going out to dinner, see if she offers to pay or not at the end. Even if it's just a hollow gesture or just for her share. I have NO PATIENCE for spoiled little princesses who expect everything to be given to them after just meeting someone for the first time! Of course I usually end up paying like a gentlemen, unless she heavily insists.
Who's inviting who out? Who picked the restaurant. These things play a factor.
Option84,
have you ever once made a second post in any of the brutal threads you have made? Basically if anyone reads the off topic thread they would never want to hang out with you.
You are clearly fat, because you are too afraid to go to gym. You lack the ability to check the weather network, instead you ask the people in the north for weather updates. You are cheap, because you buy overpriced pop and then bitch about it, also see the insurance thread.. You want to know how much other people tip (larry davidesque), whether or not it is acceptable to sit on the same side of the booth as your SO and you bought your mom the worst mothers day gift ever.
Option84,
have you ever once made a second post in any of the brutal threads you have made? Basically if anyone reads the off topic thread they would never want to hang out with you.
You are clearly fat, because you are too afraid to go to gym. You lack the ability to check the weather network, instead you ask the people in the north for weather updates. You are cheap, because you buy overpriced pop and then bitch about it, also see the insurance thread.. You want to know how much other people tip (larry davidesque), whether or not it is acceptable to sit on the same side of the booth as your SO and you bought your mom the worst mothers day gift ever.
On a first date I would think it's important to make as good an impression as possible. I understand the thing about spoiled women, I also get the thing with wanting to make it fair as you get to know each other more. But on the first date, I wanna look like a hero! And often throughout the relationship as well. Nothing feels better than being able to spoil your girl some. As long as she's appreciative of course (and no I don't mean that in a wink wink way, it's not a means to an end, though it often works anyway).
I think the problem you're having is not feeling like your efforts or sacrifices are appreciated. That probably has more to do with how you present yourself and self esteem. You can be generous without being a doormat.
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If you get a hand job while sitting beside her, it's a good indication of better things to come that night. Don't screw it up by asking her to pay for half.
