Getting past the "friend zone"

[CaptainCrunch]

Or she values you as a convienient source of cheap and easy back breaking labour.

[Teh_Bandwagoner]

Completely cut off the relationship with her for a year.
Come back, flirt like crazy.

That should get you in.

[CaptainCrunch]

Invite her to your house for movie night and answer the door in a whipped cream bikini. See if that gets you anywhere.

[Yeah_Baby]

Originally Posted by Teh_Bandwagoner

Completely cut off the relationship with her for a year.
Come back, flirt like crazy.

That should get you in.

Voice of experience?

[Bibtin Tex]

I've posted this a month ago,

[Yeah_Baby]

You want me to eat liver?

[Ace Handy]

Originally Posted by Teh_Bandwagoner

Completely cut off the relationship with her for a year.
Come back, flirt like crazy.

That should get you in.

This actually works. Except you don't come back, she does.

[Teh_Bandwagoner]

Originally Posted by Ace Handy

This actually works. Except you don't come back, she does.

Yeah poor choice of words. By "come back" I mean "coincidentally show up back in her life"

[Ace Handy]

Originally Posted by Teh_Bandwagoner

Yeah poor choice of words. By "come back" I mean "coincidentally show up back in her life"

Exactly!

[Azure]

Sure it can work.

But the risk involved is in screwing up what possibly was a good friendship.

If you're the 'loser' that CC talked about, the one that your 'friend' can get to watch chick flicks with her, buy her expensive dinners, let her cry on your shoulder, you're screwed up from the beginning.

Since when is a friendship supposed to go one way? If thats the way its going, you're being used.

[Phaneuf3]

Originally Posted by Teh_Bandwagoner

Completely cut off the relationship with her for a year.
Come back, flirt like crazy.

That should get you in.

this.
jail would be a good way to cut it off too. as was posted earlier, chicks go for the bad boy/ex-con types all the time.

[Rerun]

Originally Posted by Ren

So, the question is, do you think it's possible for two friends of opposite sexes to move past the "friend" barrier and forge a healthy, working relationship that can go the distance? I'm not talking about two people who met at a house party and exchanged emails, I mean two people who know each other pretty well and have been friends for a while. If it is possible, under what circumstances can a friendly relationship evolve into a sexual relationship? If not, why?

I don't really have a reason for asking as I'm not in this kind of situation myself, I was just curious to gather people's thoughts on this issue.

Yes... but this is required .... for her....

[Ozy_Flame]

Originally Posted by Phaneuf3

this.
jail would be a good way to cut it off too. as was posted earlier, chicks go for the bad boy/ex-con types all the time.

"It's all....Part of the plan."