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Originally Posted by Maritime Q-Scout
thanks guys,
the point of the thread was for people to say "oh it's just _____ he'll be fine"
I'm doing ok, still in shock, it'll probably hit me this weekend when I go home. Mom said that even if they chose to wait for me to get home on Friday he'd have died naturally by then.
I didn't start the thread looking for sympathy, and well I didn't think the outcome would be what it is. However I do want to say thanks folks.
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In all honesty, from your description, take some comfort in the fact nature has made the decision a fait accompli . . . .
When the decision is in your hands, the timing of it, when it could be today or next month or the month after, when its up to you to gauge how much pain is tolerable and weigh that against life, the emotional impact of that decision and particularly a sense of guilt if it's the first time you've had to make such a decision, can be quite overwhelming, depending on how close you were to your friend.
Nature took that out of your hands and that's a small mercy in itself.
Again, best wishes.
Cowperson