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Old 06-26-2022, 04:13 PM   #21
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I have been wondering over the last few years if this is something that I have as well. Strangely enough it might have been TikTok that tipped me off (I know, I know).

One thing I saw was that people with ADHD are constantly thinking about everything...from one thought to the next with no break whatsoever and I am horribly disorganized with time management. No matter what I try, I can't seem to keep on track of everything that's going on and that often results in long, long days of cramming a project through that is stellar, but exhausts me and my mental state in the process. When that happens I isolate from the outside world, choosing to stay in and do literally nothing. It's like there's no middle ground between going full-out or almost in a vegetable state. My anxiety is probably higher than the norm, but I hide it very well. The list of coping mechanisms I do on a daily basis is vast...

How did you approach your doctor about it? I have to admit I'm apprehensive about medication, but if it works then it's probably a good idea to try?
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Thanks OP. Great post.

I was diagnosed ADHD at age 19, later age than most diagnosis. I approached my doctor, he sent me to a psychologist and I was unofficially addressed with ADHD (the official test is pretty expensive). He advised my doc that perhaps some medication may assist. I was put on medication and used it for about some time. Now, I no longer use it, as for myself, I put some non-medical boundaries/reminders/ect to assist my adhd. But the diagnosis definitely helped in relieving some of the symptoms. I had insurance to visit the psychologist, I went a few times. If it wasn’t for the diagnosis I don’t think I’d be at the current point in my life!

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Great post, brother. Last year, I was diagnosed with OCD after waiting to see a psychiatrist forever. I was always suspected of having it by family doctors and psychologists, but good to actually have the official stamp.

To everyone doubting the benefits of medication, take the medication. It helps. I'm on a significant dose of Prozac now and my intrusive/obsessive thoughts have been reduced by about 95%.
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I have been wondering over the last few years if this is something that I have as well. Strangely enough it might have been TikTok that tipped me off (I know, I know).

Dude ME TOO. I can't decide if The Algorithm (tm) actually diagnosed me with neurological condition or if I just find ADHD jokes hilarious.
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ADHD is a poorly worded name for what we're learning should be better thought of as neurodivergency. My wife was diagnosed when we took our daughter in for evaluation (my daughter is pretty severe). I've learned a lot about it over the past 2 years or so that we've been trying to help my daughter navigate it. Some of the books by Gabor Mate are helpful with understanding it, and for kids - books like My Brain Needs Glasses really help to explain a lot of what is going on and how medications help.

Neurodivergency also has a lot of common traits with ASD (given they're both represented by difficulty with executive function) and people who are neurodivergent are more likely to suffer from anxiety and depression. Knowing what's going on and providing resources to your friends and family goes a long way in helping them understand that the (likely) annoying tendencies you have are really not your fault, and neurotypical people can do certain things to help those who are neurodivergent stay on top of things.

Whoever mentioned TikTok, that's also been a really interested dive for me as well. I've learned so much about how that process of chasing the dopamine works. Good luck!
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Dude ME TOO. I can't decide if The Algorithm (tm) actually diagnosed me with neurological condition or if I just find ADHD jokes hilarious.
I'm not sure either, but when I started saying to myself...

I do that.
I do that.
I do that.
I do that.
I do that.
I do that.
I do that.

I started to wonder...hahaha
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Looking back, Pippa Boyd can see the telltale signs – like frequently getting in trouble in grade school for moving around too much, and needing an organizational system that relied heavily on cue cards to make it through nursing school – but only recently has she started to think she has ADHD.

“In highly adrenalized situations my focus is spot on, but in daily life it’s a struggle,” says the 54-year-old from Toronto.

That struggle has only gotten worse in the past two years, And it’s one many others are also experiencing.

Clinicians and ADHD advocacy organizations say they are seeing a large influx of adults seeking an ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) diagnosis and treatment.

Dr. Gurdeep Parhar says the number of adults coming to his Burnaby, B.C., clinic seeking an ADHD diagnosis is up 25 per cent since the pandemic began. Not all of them will meet the diagnostic criteria, dealing instead with a normal amount of difficulty paying attention, an understandable situation considering all the ways life has changed in the past two years. But with the pandemic’s collapse of routines and schedules – whether it’s no longer going into the office, making it to the gym or attending social functions – many people’s previously undiagnosed ADHD has been brought to the fore, Dr. Parhar says.

“COVID has brought it more to light,” he says. “People who did well in a structured environment, whether it was a classroom or an office, are all of a sudden given all of this unstructured time.”

There is also a wider awareness of ADHD and its nuances than in earlier generations. This is leading some adults to consider it as a reason for why they are struggling, rather than dismissing it as a diagnosis only found in children, says Heidi Bernhardt, director of education and advocacy at the Centre for ADHD Awareness Canada, a non-profit organization based in Toronto.

Wayne O’Brien runs a support group in Toronto for adults with ADHD. Prior to the pandemic, the group had approximately 100 active members, who would meet twice a month at the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health. The meetings have gone virtual and the number of active members has tripled, Mr. O’Brien says. Many newcomers have yet to be diagnosed, but are sure they suffer from the disorder, he says.

When it was first identified in the 1960s, ADHD was known as “hyperkinetic reaction of childhood.” Thanks to a better understanding of the condition, including identifying inattentiveness as a symptom, it was finally named ADHD in 1987, when the American Psychiatric Association released the third edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders.

ADHD is the most common mental-health disorder identified in children, affecting nearly 5 per cent of people of all ages, but an estimated 90 per cent of adults who have ADHD are undiagnosed, Ms. Bernhardt says.

Typically, it is hyperactive boys disrupting classrooms who are singled out for assessment, she says. “Those are the kids who would be picked up because they’re highly annoying to adults.”

People who struggle more with attention than hyperactivity are more likely to slip through the cracks. This is true especially of girls – boys are more than twice as likely to be diagnosed with ADHD than girls, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

“I’ve been finding a lot of women are coming during the pandemic,” says Dr. Doron Almagor, a Toronto-based psychiatrist and former chair of the Canadian ADHD Resource Alliance, a non-profit organization dedicated to improving the understanding of ADHD among health care professionals.

ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder and therefore something people are born with, Dr. Almagor says. The pandemic hasn’t caused any adult to develop ADHD. It’s instead brought their ADHD more starkly into focus. “The pandemic may have tipped the balance in their functioning,” he says.

The move to working from home has likely been the biggest such balance-shift for many, Ms. Bernhardt says.

“If you’re in a good job that works to your strengths, if you have a spouse who does all the organizing, if you have good scheduling you thrive,” she says. But when “all that scaffolding disappears,” a person’s ADHD symptoms can quickly become exacerbated. “That’s what’s happened in the pandemic.”

André Brisson, who was diagnosed with ADHD shortly before the pandemic, has struggled with the transition to working from home.

Before COVID-19, he’d often be driving to Toronto from his home in Ingersoll, Ont., to meet with clients. “Constant movement is important for me,” says the 47-year-old, who runs a structural engineering company. “I get bored easily, and when I get bored my impulsivity takes over.”

Working from home has not only meant having to fight boredom, but also structuring and organizing his professional life away from an office, something that is still a challenge.

“I just created my little ADHD office in the last few months. It’s completely separated from everyone else, I’ve got nothing on the walls, it’s got no distractions,” he says.

The pandemic may have also caused some people to wrongly suspect they have the disorder, Dr. Almagor says.

“People are stressed out and might be expecting too much of themselves. There are limits to productivity and focus,” he says.


There is a strict diagnostic criteria for ADHD Dr. Parhar says. While it is based on a psychological assessment, importantly, it must cause dysfunction. If you’re not struggling with work, family or personal relationships, then you probably don’t have ADHD, he says.

As for Ms. Boyd, she will be meeting with a specialist later this summer after her family physician initially dismissed ADHD. She made it through nursing school and therefore couldn’t have the disorder, he told her.

But she has found things harder than ever during the pandemic.

“Keeping on top of e-mails, my phone, it’s hard. I’m really struggling with my organizational stuff right now,” she says.

She is meditating daily, making lists of everything she needs to do and relying on alarms on her Google calendar to try and stay focused. All the research she has done on her own has convinced her she has ADHD and it puts all her earlier challenges in a new light.

“It’s just a real eye opener,” she says.
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Firstly, thanks for everyone who sent me PM’s and have given kind words in the thread. Much appreciated.

My advice to anyone who thinks they might have ADHD is to first Google some ADHD self assessments, doing these are part of the process. I did easily a dozen of more being as honest as I could on them. Here are links to a couple my Doctor had me complete.

https://www.caddra.ca/wp-content/uploads/ASRS.pdf

https://www.caddra.ca/wp-content/uploads/WFIRS-S.pdf

https://www.adhdadulthood.com/adhd-test

Make an appointment and have the conversation, if your doctor seems very dismissive and just says “You’re fine” but you know something is effecting your daily functioning then seek another Professionals opinion, it can’t hurt. By no means chase a diagnosis but you know yourself and when something might be out of sorts, so advocate for your well being.

In regards to all the medication questions, everyone is totally different and medications may or may not be the answer to help you. That’s where working with your Doctors and following up come into play. My medication works amazing for me and my son however I do have some side effects of the so called “come down” period about 12-14 hours afterwards where I get a pounding headache, neck/back pain and can get very moody. This is supposed to subside after a few more weeks but if it doesn’t I will be addressing it and may try something else.

If you find yourself getting any type of diagnosis just remember it took you X amount of years to come to this conclusion so it’s gonna take some time to address. There is ups and downs but it will work out some way.

Lastly, I am an open book. Like shockingly open when it come to my experiences with mental health challenges. So if anyone wants to reach out and ask anything feel free. I’m happy to share my experiences and chat. The CP community is a pretty cool place where I have gotten a lot of information and support over the last nearly 20 years. I hope to continue that where I can.

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