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Old 11-23-2005, 03:09 PM   #21
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Harsh - I don't really like laughing at the pain of others...and we'll leave it at that.
Self-inflicted pain, though. In any other instance it wouldn't be cool, but she brought it on herself.
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Old 11-23-2005, 03:16 PM   #22
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Self-inflicted pain, though. In any other instance it wouldn't be cool, but she brought it on herself.
I know, and I know what he's feeling because I've been cheated on. I tend to believe in karma and I don't want to get it ten-fold back.
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Old 11-23-2005, 03:19 PM   #23
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As someone who has been cheated on by a former girlfriend I say she deserves every ounce of humiliation that comes with being known as someone who cheated. If it makes people think less of her then too bad. Don't do the crime if you can't do the time. She can't handle him being mad at her? Too bad. She brought it on herself. The Cheater doesn't get to feel bad that the one she cheated on is mad at her. She doesn't deserve any respect because she didn't show any for him when she ****ed around on him.
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Old 11-23-2005, 03:20 PM   #24
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I know, and I know what he's feeling because I've been cheated on. I tend to believe in karma and I don't want to get it ten-fold back.
Ever think that him BCC'ing the message to hundreds is karma's way of paying her back?
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Old 11-23-2005, 03:23 PM   #25
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How do you guys feel about the guy that's nailing the other guy's girl?
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Old 11-23-2005, 03:26 PM   #26
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Ever think that him BCC'ing the message to hundreds is karma's way of paying her back?
And it's probably teaching her not to ever apologize through email ever again
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Old 11-23-2005, 03:28 PM   #27
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So that was the girl's name
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Old 11-23-2005, 03:28 PM   #28
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How do you guys feel about the guy that's nailing the other guy's girl?
Good question. I was going to say that i didn't find it possible that most guys would just have a shot or two with the guy and laugh it off. I figure most guys would hunt him down like a dog or something.
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Old 11-23-2005, 03:36 PM   #29
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How do you guys feel about the guy that's nailing the other guy's girl?
It depends....
If he knew the guy and knew this was his girlfriend then the guy deserves a punch in the mouth, if not more than that.

If he is some random guy that she just decided to blow in the bathroom then how can you blame him? Not many guys that I know of turn down bj's. In that case he is not at fault at all.
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Old 11-23-2005, 03:41 PM   #30
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Good question. I was going to say that i didn't find it possible that most guys would just have a shot or two with the guy and laugh it off. I figure most guys would hunt him down like a dog or something.
True, I would be mighty ****ed AT THE TIME, but judging by what he wrote back to her I don't think this couple was headed to the alter anyhow so after it would turn more into a situation like

"hey you used to date Elizabeth right? yah a little while ago until the skank cheated on me with some dude in the bathroom. Dude that was me! That was you! ##### yah man, not one of my finer moments sorry man. MEH whatever, she was a a sh*tty lay anyhow"
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Old 11-23-2005, 03:48 PM   #31
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Ouch!!!!
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Old 11-23-2005, 03:50 PM   #32
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How do you guys feel about the guy that's nailing the other guy's girl?
Meh, it's her responsibility not to cheat. Even if the guy knew, who cares? She probably would have done it with someone else eventually anyway.
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Old 11-23-2005, 03:54 PM   #33
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God it's good to be single! All this stress you people put yourself through, and for what?
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Old 11-23-2005, 04:02 PM   #34
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God it's good to be single! All this stress you people put yourself through, and for what?
Prior to the relationship I'm in now (2 years running) I was single for pretty much the same amont of time. I choose the relationship 9 times out of 10, easily.
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Old 11-23-2005, 04:06 PM   #35
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Meh, it's her responsibility not to cheat. Even if the guy knew, who cares? She probably would have done it with someone else eventually anyway.
I agree.

What's that say about a leopard not chaning its spots?
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Old 11-23-2005, 04:22 PM   #36
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I agree.

What's that say about a leopard not chaning its spots?
I have to disagree first hand . While i'm not proud of it I have been disloyal to people I have dated. I never used excuses and never will for what I did. My next relationship after found me with a girl for 2 months before she left for KOREA for a year. Of course the big bet amongst my friends was how long I could stay faithful.

I am now proud to say that we have been together for over two years and are engaged to get married in september and never once did I come close to straying...so that "once a cheater always a cheater" is pure bullsh*t
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Old 11-23-2005, 04:25 PM   #37
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I am now proud to say that we have been together for over two years and are engaged to get married in september and never once did I come close to straying...so that "once a cheater always a cheater" is pure bullsh*t
That's fair and good to hear. I'm certainly very cynical after my past two relationships that ended because he cheated.
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Old 11-23-2005, 04:27 PM   #38
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I know people that always get cheated on too...

Anybody ever entertain the notion it might be you and not the other person?
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Old 11-23-2005, 04:29 PM   #39
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Anybody ever entertain the notion it might be you and not the other person?
lol - I'll keep that in mind
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Old 11-23-2005, 04:29 PM   #40
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I know people that always get cheated on too...

Anybody ever entertain the notion it might be you and not the other person?
The faults of the people you know are not being able to date the right person, it's rarely (if ever) the fault of the cheatee then the cheater.

I don't know how anyone can go "Yeah I cheated on you, but it's your fault"
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