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Old 03-05-2020, 09:06 AM   #21
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There's so many of those calls and scam these days, my brain has been pretty trained to think EVERYTHING is a scam, so I end up ignoring basically any calls or voice messages sent to me unless it's someone I know.

Which, in a way, could also be bad, because I may end up ignoring a legit call. But I do on-line banking and I log into the CRA through their website (and not through some link sent to me), so figured I got everything covered. If there's an actual warrant for my arrest like they claim, the cops know where to find me.

I tell my parents the same thing. Just ignore everything. If it's real, they'll see an actual letter for it from the CRA.
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Old 03-05-2020, 09:10 AM   #22
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I don't have real parents but the people who took me in 30 years ago are now approaching 80 and it is really enlightening and awful to see the decline. It's hard to know the line between mental illness, aging, and dementia. They've been struggling with computers and technology which is crazy since the guy has 40 wireless patents to his credit. I've been checking their mail and there are return to sender letters from all the big tech companies containing his letters warning them of the Chinese conspiracy to take over our information networks. They've had the India calls and have been very close to giving up their info even though they are paranoid and suspicious of everything. I worry they'll fall for some estate planning scam. It's a scary thing to know this is coming your way. Drink your brain tonic now.
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My mom got caught up in a romance scam off of some sort of Christian dating site & was out some money because she bought the guy a couple of iPads and shipped them to him. My mom is a bit of an idiot though, so there's that. When we realized what had happened, after Mr Romance didn't show up at the airport here, to meet her as planned, we tried helping her - my brother took her computer and worked it over, we reported to the police, etc etc etc. She was more mad at us than she was at the scammer, and accepted a couple of phone calls from him afterward, with him screaming at her. It was an utter gong show. But, not my problem anymore, we don't speak and haven't in almost 10 years (lots of backstory here involving immense amounts of abuse).

My mother-in-law sometimes answers & she just starts talking in Plautdietch and they hang up in a hurry and almost never call back. They have been caught out once & had to replace a credit card, so they tend to call us about stuff now, if they're ever tempted to look into things further.
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My folks are getting up there, thinking I should talk to them about this. Definitely worth discussing.

The original post is infuriating to read, wish we could get our hands on these people.
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Old 03-05-2020, 01:04 PM   #25
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The one thing I worry about is that today I am able to pick up scams. But at some point we age, technology improves or whatever and you likely aren’t able to recognize that you no longer have the cognitive ability to detect scams. So how do you protect yourself from your future self inability to detect scams.

The two people who I know who were scammed they still believe that they couldn’t be scammed even though they already were. And these are quite rational people.
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I had a weird scam call today. My social insurance number had been compromised. It was a message and ended with a really fast reference number and then said to press one for more info. I was already going to press one to erase it. So maybe that's how they get you to engage their pay per call system. Tricky.
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you think it's bad now, just wait till criminals are able to deepfake the image/voice of your loved ones. we're already on the brink of that being a problem at the celebrity level, but once it goes down to regular people, then everything is screwed.
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Hi all just thought I would write a quick CP PSA for everyone here with elderly parents.

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To make a long story short he was scammed out of over $25000 in the last three days. If I never happened to catch him in the act I imagine they would have cleaned him out of ever last dollar.
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There is a special spot in hell for those who target the elderly with scams.
Thanks for sharing. I need to take some precautionary steps with my Mom and In-laws. Are you able to recover any of the $25K?
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Old 03-05-2020, 01:58 PM   #29
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I waste their time.

I let them explain themselves, then when they request CC, I say I'm going to go grab it from my wallet, so please hang on a moment. I just leave the phone on until they eventually hang up.
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I waste their time.

I let them explain themselves, then when they request CC, I say I'm going to go grab it from my wallet, so please hang on a moment. I just leave the phone on until they eventually hang up.
I do variations of this too. As long as I am wasting their time they are not getting someone else.

I used to think I would never fall for a scam, but i was in the room with a friend getting spearfished. They were actually in his email sending messages from his wife (one letter in the email changed) and if he sent something to his wife real email they intercepted it and responded back with the other email address. He wasnt aware what was happening. But came back to me only a couple minutes later and in the latest email they said 'hey babe' he asked ' think I am being scammed my wife doesn't talk like this?'. I said he probably was (it was right after the Yahoo breach.

They were in his email learning his back story and his value etc. So it was done really well. So my thought now is I could be scammed.
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Good thread. Thanks for sharing.

We recently found my mother in law following an obviously fake Harry and Mehgan FB page that was asking for donations. There were so many red flags, especially one of their comments stating "We are not a fake page!".
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Old 03-05-2020, 06:43 PM   #32
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There's the stuff in the middle too that's no really an outright scam, but not really legit either. Or at least depends on unrealistic expectations. Like if you go to those business things at the stampede grounds where you can sign up to own vending machines or start a travel agency or get your great novel published for the low cost of $15,000...

Those I find are harder to deal with because yes I guess there is some chance of success so parents or whoever is harder to convince to not do it.
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Thanks for sharing. I need to take some precautionary steps with my Mom and In-laws. Are you able to recover any of the $25K?

The credit card companies are still investigating, but I doubt it.

I spent today calling all the places where he bought cards asking them how stupid can they be for selling thousands of dollars of gift cards to a obviously handicapped elderly man.

Most of them said it was company policy. I told them to get a job somewhere that the company policies don't suck ass.

If someone came in to my business who was obviously being scammed there is no way in hell I would be part of it.

Part of the problem here is the corporate greed from these big corporations who know that things like gift scams are going on but they do nothing about it.


Cops were one hundred percent useless. It took two days to get a call back after we made a report and the call back was to say "tough luck buddy".
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Old 03-05-2020, 06:47 PM   #34
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I just remembered my dad fell for one of those text messages "click this link to log into your bank and do whatever".. they lost a few thousand with that, he said next time he won't tell the bank he clicked on the link.
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I don't have real parents but the people who took me in 30 years ago are now approaching 80 and it is really enlightening and awful to see the decline. It's hard to know the line between mental illness, aging, and dementia. They've been struggling with computers and technology which is crazy since the guy has 40 wireless patents to his credit. I've been checking their mail and there are return to sender letters from all the big tech companies containing his letters warning them of the Chinese conspiracy to take over our information networks. They've had the India calls and have been very close to giving up their info even though they are paranoid and suspicious of everything. I worry they'll fall for some estate planning scam. It's a scary thing to know this is coming your way. Drink your brain tonic now.

Its scary to me, and not to digress.


My Dad who to me growing up was 10 feet tall, and funny, and well read, is 86 now, and he's still sharp but you can see the wheels grinding slower now.



My mom fell and struck her head a few years back, and she's never been the same, she struggles to remember, she used to be an unbelievable cook who loved making family dinners, now its a impossible task.



Its scary knowing that the end is getting closer for my parents. I wasted so much time being angry and avoiding them when I was younger.



I also look at them and see what's coming for me.
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Idk, maybe be happy you've had them for 50 some years. I lost my dad when I was in my mid-20s and he was in his mid-50s. Think about him every day and can't imagine how awesome an extra 20 years or more with him would have been. You have it very good, CC.
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Scammers come to the door as well. My parents were sucked into buying a year supply of premium meat last year. I mean... not really a scam... just targeting the vulnerable. That was enough meat for a family of 6... not 2 people...
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It's what I do and what I try to tell her, but she likes to have fun with these people.
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I had a weird scam call today. My social insurance number had been compromised. It was a message and ended with a really fast reference number and then said to press one for more info. I was already going to press one to erase it. So maybe that's how they get you to engage their pay per call system. Tricky.
They're calling you via a modern age auto dialer. Rather than dial out themselves, the system calls the numbers and weeds out dead lines or fax lines or anyone who just hangs up automatically. If you press '1', it's showing a live body at the end of the line and one to which hasn't yet dismissed the call as a scam.

Had you stayed on the line for the sin scam, they would have asked you to provide your last 3 digits of your sin card and pretended it's a match to make you believe as such. They would not ask for the 'full' sin # as that gets peole too suspicious. Thereafter, they would have then directed you to go to your bank while they stay on the line, advise you to withdraw all of your money and deposit it into a bitcoin machine to 'keep your account safe' during their supposed investigation. You then give them the bitcoin refernence number, and pomptly never hear from them again and lose your money through a relatively untracable method.

There are variations to that scam, but that's essentially the gyst.

Other popular scams included but are not limited to:

CRA Scam: your account has been flagged and you owe 'X' amount (eg $8000.00) in backpayment and RCMP are coming to your door in 45 minutes to arrest you. But this can be solved over the phone for a much lesser cost if you go to 7-11 and buy 'x' amount ($1000) in itunes gift cards and read the #'s to them over the phone.

Tiffany scam: you receive a call on a land line (res or bus, not a cell) that someone is at Tiffanys/Birks (etc) trying to buy a $22,000.00 ring and they want to know if you approve the cost. Of course you say no, they then instruct you to hang up and immediately call your credit card company to cancel. You hang up, pick the phone back up, begin dialling your credit card company, however, because it's a land line, the phone number is actually still 'locked' with that caller (much like if you call us on 911 and hang up, we lock your line and will not release it so you cannot dial out. if you pick up the ph again, we're still there). The offender hands the phone to someone else who pretends to be the card company you yourself believe have dialled (in fact you didn't ) and you go ahead and start providing your card, password, # on the back, etc.

Indeed job scam: No experience necessary, all you have to do is some bank work. Deposit that check worth $3800. Then withdraw immediately $3000 and send to 'x' account, you keep the $800. The check then bounces days later but not until you've made the deposits and the offr withdraws their funds from you.

Microsoft scam: Message pops up on your computer about a virus and to call the # for immediate fix with their IT. You call it, they negotiate a price that you pay via etransfer or provide bank info for them to withdra from (etc). they then take over the computer to 'clean it out', and in fact they do, just not in the way you thought. They get all your passwords, account info, etc.

Grandmother scam: person calls elderly lady pretending to be their grandson and states they're out of the country and got into a car accident and needs 'x' amount of money for lawyer/legal fees. they never identify themselves by name, but grandma just hears a young voice and assumes its their grandson.

Romance scam: online dating, manipulates lonely people by professing their love over time all the while concocting stories of their plan to get to gether to marry. Just needs money for their business, or for this or that, to clear themselves and eventually come see their true love.

email/password scam: email comes in ghosting your own account - meaning the email arrives in your inbox appearing to come from your own email address. The email advises that as per the message coming from your own account, they have clearly hacked your computer. To further, they give you an old password of yours that you once used (it's correct, and due to a security breach in the early 2010's to a major company). They tell you that unless you pay 'x' amount via bitcoin, they will send all your private info and websites (etc) you visited to all your family and friends. -- They do not have your current passwords, do not have your actual email address and do not have access to your computer, but the scam and previous breach gives reasonable doubt. This scam is not common any longer but does pop up time to time.

Lottery scam: you won a big prize of $100,000. Just pay us $2300 processing fee.

There are other scams that I'm forgetting at the moment, but work is picking up so I'll end this here. WhiteTiger may also chime in and piggyback with more to add.

About the best advice I can give as an 'overall' would be to tell friends and family, especially seniors or those with language barriers, to essentially never give any personal information out to anyone who calls them no matter what the scenario. CRA, police, donations, lottery, family/friends out of country, etc. If anyone wishes to make a payment of any variety or offer personal information over the phone, do so when you yourself iniitiate the call against a number you know is valid at a time you decide. That means call your bank and provide info but not when someone calls you first and says to. Or investigate a charity first and ask for donation pamphlet or website, never just pay over the ph or at the door. Call CRA yourself and ask if there's an issue if someone calls you and advises as such.

At any time and as WhiteTiger previously noted, you may also call us on the non-emerg CPS line if you're unsure and we can assist. If you're a victim (out money, etc) we will dispatch. If you simply received the call but are unsure of its validity, we can help debunk and/or direct you to anti-fraud thereafter.

I hope this helped. Be well everyone.
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