Adult Cyber-Bullying / Cyber-Harrassment / Cyber-Stalking

[Nufy]

Originally Posted by return to the red

anybody else waiting for the random post from a new signup that adds more to this story?

I'm surprised no one has asked for pics ....

oh yeah...

Pics please.......

[1stLand]

Originally Posted by return to the red

...and there it is.

Back to the op. What did you do to this women to scar her so bad and what kind of information does she have on you that could harm your relationship?

You said the new women you had previously dated 10 years ago so I would assume that you are both old enough and mature enough to realize that there are plenty of crazy's in the world.

I didn't do anything to this woman. I hung out with her 2 times. I was very charming. I have never professed my love for her. Maybe I did hint that we would hang out again sometime but that was before I connected with my current gf.

I can't believe how a woman could honestly consider I was interested in her if our last hangout was late August and I never bothered to hang out with her again.

We are in our late 20's but yes this does sound like high school.

The ex that screwed up the makeup is in her early 20's. With her, I basically told her flat out we had no future together and that I thought of her more as a friend.

[AMG_G]

I'll bite...so after 10 years is there any validity to the vaginal expansion theory?

[Locke]

Cardinal Rule: Do not stick your dick in crazy.

That being said, are you a bad breaker-upper? One ccrazy in this situation is a coincidence, two crazies in the same situation sounds like a bit of a pattern.

Oh yes. And ditch the Facebook. Its more trouble than its worth.

[Ark2]

There's likely more to the story than we are being told. Two women think the OP is scum... just sayin'

[Sliver]

Can we get a title change? I see no evidence of cyber-stalking, cyber-bullying nor cyber-harassment.

[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by Sliver

Can we get a title change? I see no evidence of cyber-stalking, cyber-bullying nor cyber-harassment.

[pylon]

This is why you don't dangle your personal relationships, what you had for desert, why you hate your job... etc on Facebook.

[Ozy_Flame]

I have found that dating friends of friends and advertising on social media the relationship status may be just be putting unnecessary risk on the whole thing. If things go south, it sort of reverberates through all the channels and everyone knows about it. Most people have this innate habit of posting more than they probably should on Facebook or Twitter and often times don't even know it. The digital paper trail created can really lead to some hurt feelings or angry exes.

That said, I believe people are slowly waking up to stuff. Most of my Facebook friends no longer advertise their relationship status at all anymore. When was the last time you saw someone use the "Single" status? Not in a long time.

[albertGQ]

Originally Posted by Ozy_Flame

I have found that dating friends of friends and advertising on social media the relationship status may be just be putting unnecessary risk on the whole thing. If things go south, it sort of reverberates through all the channels and everyone knows about it. Most people have this innate habit of posting more than they probably should on Facebook or Twitter and often times don't even know it. The digital paper trail created can really lead to some hurt feelings or angry exes.

That said, I believe people are slowly waking up to stuff. Most of my Facebook friends no longer advertise their relationship status at all anymore. When was the last time you saw someone use the "Single" status? Not in a long time.

Didn't even know relationship status still exists on FB.

Is it kind of hidden now?

[Nage Waza]

Just be open and honest with your girlfriend, than both of you can laugh at your exes.

My wife and I wound up having an engagement party (hosted at a family friend's hotel) which by fluke recently became managed by her ex. I didn't care and she didn't care and we all had a good time. The ex did walk in to 'discover' it was us and congratulated both of us. Of course, he, she or I could have been super jealous or something, but we were all fine with it.

[Ozy_Flame]

Originally Posted by Nage Waza

My wife and I wound up having an engagement party (hosted at a family friend's hotel) which by fluke recently became managed by her ex. I didn't care and she didn't care and we all had a good time. The ex did walk in to 'discover' it was us and congratulated both of us. Of course, he, she or I could have been super jealous or something, but we were all fine with it.

So . . . Three-way?

[habernac]

so happy to be happily married in this digital world where breakups just turn to never ending online crapola.