09-15-2017, 01:28 PM
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#481
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Originally Posted by troutman
My 14 year old decided not to play this year. He likes the game, but I think was frustrated with favourtism (minutes, line combos), and the lack of team play (no one ever passed the puck much). I don't think he liked the constant social gatherings and tournaments (he is more introverted). He played in a lower division, maybe 6.
He might enjoy some kind of house league or shinny.
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That is unfortunate- differential ice time etc at that level (unless understood ahead of time to be a known consequence of missing a practice or being unacceptably late etc) isn't cool
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09-15-2017, 02:33 PM
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#482
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Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Sylvan Lake
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Quote:
Originally Posted by troutman
My 14 year old decided not to play this year. He likes the game, but I think was frustrated with favourtism (minutes, line combos), and the lack of team play (no one ever passed the puck much). I don't think he liked the constant social gatherings and tournaments (he is more introverted). He played in a lower division, maybe 6.
He might enjoy some kind of house league or shinny.
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This is sad to read. Hopefully he still stays on the ice and is involved in the game somehow.
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Originally Posted by looooob
That is unfortunate- differential ice time etc at that level (unless understood ahead of time to be a known consequence of missing a practice or being unacceptably late etc) isn't cool
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Bang on.
Let kids play.
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09-15-2017, 03:36 PM
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#483
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Unfrozen Caveman Lawyer
Join Date: Oct 2002
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NW Warriors news:
https://www.facebook.com/northwestwa...OJ9I5w&fref=nf
When the concern regarding our logo was raised, we took it very seriously. We would have liked to have been in a position to provide a quick and decisive response, but it was clear to us that we needed to be thorough and thoughtful, and most importantly to get direction from the Crowchild family. The naming of Crowchild Twin Arena and Crowchild Hockey Association, and the use of the Crowchild Blackhawks logo, was connected to honouring Chief David Crowchild. In view of the fact that the new Warriors logo came from this homage to the Crowchild family, their input was necessary to determine our future direction.
With that, Northwest Warriors leadership has met with Chief Lee Crowchild of the Tsuut’ina Nation, and will be working in partnership with the Tsuut’ina to update the Northwest Warriors logo. The process has already begun and we look forward to working with Tsuut’ina to develop updated imagery honouring Chief David Crowchild while considerate of our members and the communities we serve. The mission of Northwest Warriors will continue to be providing opportunities for young Calgarians in our community to participate in hockey in a safe, fair, stimulating, and respectful environment. We will do so while ensuring the connection to our communities and what it means to be a part of Northwest Warriors is known and fostered.
Chief Lee Crowchild and his family have indicated their support for the Northwest Warriors’ continued use of the current logo while the logo is updated and implemented. The timeline for implementation will be guided by the regular replacement of jerseys, likely over 3 years.
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09-21-2017, 09:00 PM
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#484
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This is seriously the most frustrating time to be a goalie parent. The entire process for evaluating goalies at a minor hockey level is horse shirt at best.
I now have to go tell my kid that he was bumped down after posting a shutout in his last eval game and playing very well in his first one all because of the results from their last skills session. (i think)
I really have no idea how things work or are graded and I actually don't think anyone in our association does either, nor cares frankly.
Frustrating.
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09-22-2017, 12:15 PM
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#486
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Evaluations can be stressful. I'm fortunate or lucky in that regard with my son, who made the top team as a first year player and was a shoe in as a second year. Even though I don't have any stress, I still see the stress in the other families. Honestly, it's more the parents that freak out than the kids. I understand because we all want what's best for our kids. And I tell people all the time that it doesn't matter which team they are on as long as they are having fun. But people say that is easy for me to say because my son is a good player. However, I'm more concerned with how he is as a human being than how he is as a hockey player.
Some parents should be careful what they wish for. If your child is a bubble player they are probably better off going down a level. Being one if the top players on a team instead of on the bottom will be a lot more enjoyable for everyone involved.
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09-23-2017, 09:37 PM
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#487
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Hey madman - I fully understand your pain as I too am a goalie parent/amateur psychologist.
I will post more on this later, but today my son locked down a spot on the minor midget aaa team he was trying out for. He was able to beat out two returning goalies. Not an easy feat for a goalie to make the jump from community to minor midget at 15.
I cried seeing him come out of the rink with his new team mates. It was absolutely surreal.
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09-23-2017, 11:44 PM
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#488
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Calgary
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Originally Posted by Northendzone
Hey madman - I fully understand your pain as I too am a goalie parent/amateur psychologist.
I will post more on this later, but today my son locked down a spot on the minor midget aaa team he was trying out for. He was able to beat out two returning goalies. Not an easy feat for a goalie to make the jump from community to minor midget at 15.
I cried seeing him come out of the rink with his new team mates. It was absolutely surreal.
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Awesome! I actually did the same last year on Northwest (I'm a forward). I played bantam 1 in my second year of bantam and then made minor midget. Just made midget aa today. A goalie did the same this year for Northwest as well. Congrats to him.
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09-25-2017, 12:35 PM
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#489
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^ congrats on continuing your path in quad hockey - it is a tough shift back to community hockey for those that get released from minor midget.
last season my son had a miserable season as he was the last goalie cut from quad, made bantam 1 and was playing great - he then picked up a suspension for 4 games (blockered a player who was pushed onto him in the head), then while he was suspended he cracked a bone in his foot and tried to play thru it but it became too painful, so was then off for most of December then played wll in January, then on Feb 3 he hurt his knee and it ended his season. he was off the ice until mid june and from then on he was very focused on making the quad team.
He beat out two returning goalies and gave up no goals during his three half games in exhibition and two goals during a full pre-season game - where he put in one of the best periods I have ever seen him play.
Given the adversity he faced and his determination and focus I came away from the process very impressed with how he handled it all.
it will be a very interesting hockey season for him both as a person and an athlete.
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09-25-2017, 01:16 PM
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#490
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So happy evaluations are over. I had a roller coaster of emotions this weekend.
My son is not an elite player. He does everything ok, but he doesn't have any one skill that is exceptional. Despite this, he's either first or second every year on his team for scoring.
It's his first year in peewee. There's a ton of great skaters now. He doesn't stand out. But I know if they put him on the lowest teams he's not going to grow as a player.
We have 4 levels for evaluations. A through D. D are the players who are still learning to skate, etc. He gets stuck in D. Again. I'm beyond frustrated.
Lucky for me, the kid takes it like a champ. He puts out a great effort at the next skate and gets put into the C group. We have another skate. He starts out slowly, but gets comfortable and finishes well. I'm pretty certain he's done enough to stay in C.
11:30pm Saturday night we still haven't got the email for when he skates on Sunday. I woke up in the middle of the night and decided to check. They've bumped him down to D again.
I stay up the remainder of the night trying to figure out how I'm going to tell him. I got three hours of sleep at most.
Breakfast time, he gets up. I tell him. "Why am I back in D, Dad?" I had no explanation. "It's ok, Dad. I'll show them what I have tonight."
I'm so proud of how he handled the adversity. He went out and was the best player on the ice. Assisted one, scored two more. I don't know what team he will end up on yet, but I know I can count on my kid to make the best of the situation.
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09-25-2017, 01:40 PM
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#491
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Originally Posted by habernac
So happy evaluations are over. I had a roller coaster of emotions this weekend.
My son is not an elite player. He does everything ok, but he doesn't have any one skill that is exceptional. Despite this, he's either first or second every year on his team for scoring.
It's his first year in peewee. There's a ton of great skaters now. He doesn't stand out. But I know if they put him on the lowest teams he's not going to grow as a player.
We have 4 levels for evaluations. A through D. D are the players who are still learning to skate, etc. He gets stuck in D. Again. I'm beyond frustrated.
Lucky for me, the kid takes it like a champ. He puts out a great effort at the next skate and gets put into the C group. We have another skate. He starts out slowly, but gets comfortable and finishes well. I'm pretty certain he's done enough to stay in C.
11:30pm Saturday night we still haven't got the email for when he skates on Sunday. I woke up in the middle of the night and decided to check. They've bumped him down to D again.
I stay up the remainder of the night trying to figure out how I'm going to tell him. I got three hours of sleep at most.
Breakfast time, he gets up. I tell him. "Why am I back in D, Dad?" I had no explanation. "It's ok, Dad. I'll show them what I have tonight."
I'm so proud of how he handled the adversity. He went out and was the best player on the ice. Assisted one, scored two more. I don't know what team he will end up on yet, but I know I can count on my kid to make the best of the situation.
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My son just started Timbits and I'm already a wreck and evaluations didn't even really matter (they just try and balance the teams), I have no idea what I'm going to do when he's older.
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09-25-2017, 02:19 PM
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#492
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Join Date: Mar 2012
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Originally Posted by habernac
So happy evaluations are over. I had a roller coaster of emotions this weekend.
My son is not an elite player. He does everything ok, but he doesn't have any one skill that is exceptional. Despite this, he's either first or second every year on his team for scoring.
It's his first year in peewee. There's a ton of great skaters now. He doesn't stand out. But I know if they put him on the lowest teams he's not going to grow as a player.
We have 4 levels for evaluations. A through D. D are the players who are still learning to skate, etc. He gets stuck in D. Again. I'm beyond frustrated.
Lucky for me, the kid takes it like a champ. He puts out a great effort at the next skate and gets put into the C group. We have another skate. He starts out slowly, but gets comfortable and finishes well. I'm pretty certain he's done enough to stay in C.
11:30pm Saturday night we still haven't got the email for when he skates on Sunday. I woke up in the middle of the night and decided to check. They've bumped him down to D again.
I stay up the remainder of the night trying to figure out how I'm going to tell him. I got three hours of sleep at most.
Breakfast time, he gets up. I tell him. "Why am I back in D, Dad?" I had no explanation. "It's ok, Dad. I'll show them what I have tonight."
I'm so proud of how he handled the adversity. He went out and was the best player on the ice. Assisted one, scored two more. I don't know what team he will end up on yet, but I know I can count on my kid to make the best of the situation.
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I always like to remind kids that be playing organized hockey, at any level, they are already part of a very small & lucky minority in this city/province/country.
Good on your son. That approach will treat him well in life.
This was our first year in a big associations (13 PeeWee teams, WTF).
My son just changed from 4 years of playing goal to a player. He hadn't skated all summer, went to the first skate after his first day of school in a "new" city. He was pretty emotional and pooped the bed, landed in group 13. He worked his way back up to group 8 and that is where he stopped, and to be honest is about right for him.
I honestly always try to be calm during evaluations/try outs.
At the end of the day it is kids just paying a sport they like.
I hope your boy has a fun and enjoyable season Habernac.
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09-27-2017, 12:58 PM
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#493
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it is very frustrating during evaluations to watch the "rico fata" types move up and sometimes the kids who have more general hockey IQ move down because they don't look flashy when skating.
I recall evaluating players one year when our association played half ice games and at the 10 minute mark fi the first game I got chatting with one of the other evaluators and we quickly compared notes and the guy he had at the bottom of his list was a guy I had closer to the top of my list - but otherwise we were pretty similar for the remaining guys we were watching. I defended my postion by noting I thought the guy in question was going tot eh right spot, just nobody was getting him the puck so it might appear eh was doing mothering. After the last 10 minutes he told me he changed his mind of the guy as he saw what I was seeing.
I should note that there are likely many times where I had the worst guy at the top of my chart - but this story is more an example of how different folks see the game differently and if enough of them see a guy as a D player rather than a C player then unfortunately he gets moved down.
I sometime wish I could go into the evaluation/tryout process knowing that my son was one of the top or bottom players so I would not stress as much about where he ultimately lands because he is clearly at one extreme
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09-27-2017, 01:04 PM
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#494
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Scoring Winger
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Originally Posted by corporatejay
My son just started Timbits and I'm already a wreck and evaluations didn't even really matter (they just try and balance the teams), I have no idea what I'm going to do when he's older.
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09-27-2017, 01:16 PM
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#495
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Originally Posted by looooob
That is unfortunate- differential ice time etc at that level (unless understood ahead of time to be a known consequence of missing a practice or being unacceptably late etc) isn't cool
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Yeah this is disappointing to hear for me as well. My son is 14 and plays Bantam travel hockey here in the USA Hockey program. I am continually disappointed to see how many coaches (including our own) really coach to win, handing out ice time based purely on skill.
I just can't get over how deeply people care about the final result of a kids hockey game. I am not advocating medals fro everyone but the emphasis needs to be on skill development across the baord.
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09-27-2017, 01:26 PM
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#496
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Join Date: Oct 2001
Location: sector 7G
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Northenndzone - that's what it comes down to for my kid. He's got a terrific sense of where he needs to be on the ice. You can be the greatest skater on the planet, but if you don't know where to be....
Update: The kid's hard work paid off. He avoided the bottom two teams, got on a team with a bunch of his friends. Should be a good year!
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09-27-2017, 01:33 PM
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#497
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Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Sylvan Lake
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Originally Posted by Strange Brew
Yeah this is disappointing to hear for me as well. My son is 14 and plays Bantam travel hockey here in the USA Hockey program. I am continually disappointed to see how many coaches (including our own) really coach to win, handing out ice time based purely on skill.
I just can't get over how deeply people care about the final result of a kids hockey game. I am not advocating medals fro everyone but the emphasis needs to be on skill development across the baord.
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Some people are ####ing idiots.
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09-27-2017, 01:50 PM
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#498
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Originally Posted by undercoverbrother
Some people are ####ing idiots.
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Not sure how USA hockey works but for example, in Calgary if you play quadrant, you should expect that teams are going to ride their players. If you want "fairness for all" play house league.
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09-27-2017, 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted by corporatejay
Not sure how USA hockey works but for example, in Calgary if you play quadrant, you should expect that teams are going to ride their players. If you want "fairness for all" play house league.
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Lazy coaching.
Granted I have never coached at AA or AAA level, but I have plenty of good friends that have. I know plenty of coaches that roll lines. In the words of one of them "if they are good enough to be on the team the are good enough to play in all situations".
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