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Old 05-17-2012, 05:51 PM   #21
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Nothing spices up the bedroom like a good old fashion threesome or a swingers party!

But seriously, she puts out enough in her mind; but probably not enough in my mind.
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Old 05-17-2012, 06:01 PM   #22
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10 person of single women in my age group get it 4 or more times per week, but 0 percent of single me get that. It pretty much reverses in a few years though.
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Old 05-17-2012, 06:20 PM   #23
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Married and getting it once a week.
Not as much as I'd hope but accordingly to Troutman's guide, im in the majority in my age group.

OP, where are you in the spectrum? Maybe you're not the only one
I am having problems with my partner, she has no sex drive and I would say our average is once every two weeks. I like sex and am used to dating much younger woman who put out a lot. My gf is 32 and will not do anything seductive like wear lingerie. We tend to fight over this.
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Old 05-17-2012, 06:45 PM   #24
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I will not comment re my current relationship, but will comment re my previous long-term relationships...

Mrs Impaler #1 stayed together 2.5 years - 1/month

Mrs Impaler #2 stayed together 2.5 years - every day

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Old 05-17-2012, 07:09 PM   #25
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I am having problems with my partner, she has no sex drive and I would say our average is once every two weeks. I like sex and am used to dating much younger woman who put out a lot. My gf is 32 and will not do anything seductive like wear lingerie. We tend to fight over this.
Switch it up a bit you go to la senza buy some sexy outfits for her then when she walks into the bedroom you'll be wearing the bra and panties.
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Old 05-17-2012, 07:18 PM   #26
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I am having problems with my partner, she has no sex drive and I would say our average is once every two weeks. I like sex and am used to dating much younger woman who put out a lot. My gf is 32 and will not do anything seductive like wear lingerie. We tend to fight over this.
Keep in mind that it's way more likely that people who are getting some will post, and that chances are they will over estimate. Just throwing that out there.

With my last gf it was probably 2x / week - limited by our busy schedules.
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Old 05-17-2012, 07:32 PM   #27
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I'm not currently in a relationship so it's sporadic at best right now but in my last few long-term relationships I would say 2-3 times a week is the norm.
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Old 05-17-2012, 08:12 PM   #29
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I am having problems with my partner, she has no sex drive and I would say our average is once every two weeks. I like sex and am used to dating much younger woman who put out a lot. My gf is 32 and will not do anything seductive like wear lingerie. We tend to fight over this.
Keep in mind, arguing about sexual frequency tends to decrease the frequency (and sometimes the quality) even further... but you've probably already found that out. There are no easy answers to your situation, but female libidos tend to go through phases much more then males, I think. If it's been like that for only a few months, ride it out. If this is the way she's always been, don't expect her to change.
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Keep in mind that it's way more likely that people who are getting some will post, and that chances are they will over estimate. Just throwing that out there.

With my last gf it was probably 2x / week - limited by our busy schedules.
Seems like this would be a good question for an anonymous poll
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Old 05-17-2012, 08:22 PM   #31
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Seems like this would be a good question for an anonymous poll
The issue with that would be that life situations would skew the results. If you're 20 and dating you're likely getting it a lot more than somebody who's been married for 10 years and has a baby or two.
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I am having problems with my partner, she has no sex drive and I would say our average is once every two weeks. I like sex and am used to dating much younger woman who put out a lot. My gf is 32 and will not do anything seductive like wear lingerie. We tend to fight over this.
This is odd because women's sexual drive tends to go through the roof in their 30's. Not to be a dick, but this is likely a sign of other issues. This could be things such as (1) she is not really into you, (2) she has sexual issues in general, etc.
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This is odd because women's sexual drive tends to go through the roof in their 30's. Not to be a dick, but this is likely a sign of other issues. This could be things such as (1) she is not really into you, (2) she has sexual issues in general, etc.
If the Kinsey numbers are accurate that would be seen as untrue. Seems very rare that sex rate increases in the 30's save for a couple of groups. Of course I suppose that could also correspond with men in their 30's suddenly being unable to gather wood.
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Old 05-17-2012, 08:42 PM   #34
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2-4 times/ month.
Ouch,are you in jail?
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She's putting out right now. She doesn't know that I'm posting this for my iPhone as its happening. I'll provide an update when we're done, in a couple of hours.
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Old 05-17-2012, 11:46 PM   #37
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4-6 times/week, been together almost a year now.
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Old 05-18-2012, 12:19 AM   #38
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My first LTGF was about 2x/month. We were just in the motion and I didn't understand that I was just attached (like Troutman said) and not really in love anymore. A waste of 7 years IMO... And she was dumb! Beautiful, but soooooo dumb.

My next LTGF was a lot more often. A lot more. It was great. She was one of those really smart, logical and attractive women. Not a model like the first but attractive. I'd take that over a hot idiot any day of the week. Smart is sexy. She also needed to go to Cornell... So, as the saying goes, "let bird out of the cage" applies so to speak. I miss her very much. *tears*

Now I'm single...
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My first LTGF was about 2x/month. We were just in the motion and I didn't understand that I was just attached (like Troutman said) and not really in love anymore. A waste of 7 years IMO... And she was dumb! Beautiful, but soooooo dumb.

My next LTGF was a lot more often. A lot more. It was great. She was one of those really smart, logical and attractive women. Not a model like the first but attractive. I'd take that over a hot idiot any day of the week. Smart is sexy. She also needed to go to Cornell... So, as the saying goes, "let bird out of the cage" applies so to speak. I miss her very much. *tears*

Now I'm single...
Does not compute. That's like having a Mustang GT in the garage so you can look at how shiny it is. Better off trading it in for a Mondeo you can take out for a spin 5-6 times a week.
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Old 05-18-2012, 01:29 AM   #40
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2-4 times a day when we see each other which is 3-6 times a week.

Including an hour ago.



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