I have been with the family 8 times in the last 6 years.
tip 1) XMAS is EXTERMELY busy. Early Dec is not. They also decorate for XMas. Even the rides (haunted manson, space mountain, small world all have special decorations as well).
tip 2) learn how to use the fastpass. You can have as many fast passes as you can at one time . the real limit is how long you have to wait to get a fast pass (see the small print at the bottom of the fast pass)
tip 3) If in
Disneyland (not world) Purchase the dessert seating for the fantasia show. The show is good, seating is a pain, this is the best way to get a good spot (and a chair)
tip 4) if you have little girls, do not underestimate the powwer of the princesses. They willlove the Pricess breafasts
tip 5) Budget $150 a day for FOOD for a familiy of 4
tip 6) when entering the park, the line up to the left near the tree is the fastest (it splits in 2 after the tree)
tip 7) the Alladin show in California Adventures is really good.
tip 8) visit
www.mouseplanet.com
tip 9) Goofy Kitchen in the PAradise Peir Hotel is great for kids and alway has characters.
tip 10) If looking for Characters, ask any of the handlers, they have a Master schdule and will give you los of tips
tip 11) if you venture into the expensive world of pin trading, each "cast memeer" will have pins. They will reject NO trade and have all the limiterd editions.
tip 120 In Disenty land the food program is more difficult because you do not have as many sit down restaurants in the pasrk If you are going to anaheim, and you have kids under 12, really paln this out before prepurchasing you food plan.
enjoy the small things, attention to deatil, hidden mickeys