I think most of the sites I have problems with have embedded media players, and not sure what plugins they are using. FlamesTV for example is one I can't watch. I think maybe I'll just go try a couple videos there and see if there is something I can find to adjust the buffer size. As an example on the opposite end, I just watched the video about that killing on the bus (nasty business that is btw

) and had absolutely no buffering happen at all.
*edit* ok, went to nhl.com, and played a video, as well as flamestv. seems to be a prob with the nhl site, as I found the settings for allowing storage on my computer for adobe flash player, and set everything to allow unlimited storage for video data, but nhl.com only uses 2 kb at a time of that unlimited storage, so I think that's where the problem is stemming from. As I said, some sites run entire long videos without ever buffering, so don't think it is a global setting on my comp, which is what I originally thought.