condomless sex

[Ha Ha Stupid Oilers]

I know I've mentioned this in another thread, but after a few weeks of daily condomless sex, it's becoming more of a concern (I think).
So she hates the feel of condoms and would rather do it without the rubber. As awesome as this sounds, she isnt on the pill or using any kind of contraceptives herself. This has me worried that I might not pull it out on time and that the pre cum would eventually get her pregnant.

Am I worrying too much?

For the ladies, is taking the pill all that inconvienient?

[rubecube]

Meh...are you guys both okay with abortions?

[Nehkara]

Originally Posted by Ha Ha Stupid Oilers

I know I've mentioned this in another thread, but after a few weeks of daily condomless sex, it's becoming more of a concern (I think).
So she hates the feel of condoms and would rather do it without the rubber. As awesome as this sounds, she isnt on the pill or using any kind of contraceptives herself. This has me worried that I might not pull it out on time and that the pre cum would eventually get her pregnant.

Am I worrying too much?

For the ladies, is taking the pill all that inconvienient?

I love CP.

Secondly, suggest the NuvaRing to her, I have at least 3 female friends who use it and swear by it.

[calculoso]

Originally Posted by Ha Ha Stupid Oilers

This has me worried that I might not pull it out on time and that the pre cum would eventually get her pregnant.

Am I worrying too much?

Definitely not. There is a huge probability that she'll get pregnant with this method. It isn't something you should just minimize and move to the back of your mind.... or else you'll be Daddy Ha Ha Stupid Oilers.

[jolinar of malkshor]

Yes....you should be worried if you do not want a baby.

Is this a serious question? Because I learned how babies were made when I was 6 and I learned that pulling out doesn't me anything in CALM class. I am sure you already know this.

[Flash Walken]

Depends on how you feel about abortion as birth control...

[DementedReality]

a good basketball player always dribbles before he shoots.

[Finner]

Actually pulling out does work...to an extent. Is it as good as the pill or a condom? NO....but it was shown that for "accidental pregnancies in a year" out of one hundred women, 2 would on the pill, 4 would on the condom, and something like 23 would using withdrawal alone. So ya it does work...just not great.

[DementedReality]

Originally Posted by Ha Ha Stupid Oilers

....few weeks of daily .... sex,

seriously? i think you are exagerating. my wife insists that no one does it daily. lol

like 20 straight days?

[henriksedin33]

you're kidding right...

[alltherage]

Originally Posted by rubecube

Meh...are you guys both okay with abortions?

[PYroMaNiaC]

You are going to be a father sooner rather than later using this method. Look on the bright side though - once a year, you'll get a macaroni necklace.

The pill is NOT inconvient to take. It's reasonably priced for about $15 a month. There are side effects though. If the inconveinance is that she has to remember to swallow once a day at the same time, you could possibly look for a girlfriend that isn't so lazy. OR she could also get shots. A little more money, but usually good for 3 to 6 months depending on the dose. (A small cartridge is placed uder the skin that releases hormones over a time span) Again, there are side effects. But for both methods, the side effects are usually mild and temporary.

[CaramonLS]

Seriously, put her on the pill right now, unless you want a child.

"Pulling out" just doesn't work.

[Torture]

this thread has so much potential!

[feartheflames]

your options,

you: do a little snippy snippy

her: birth control, female condom, sponge, or tubes tied, diaphram

your way is the SCARY WAY

[Ha Ha Stupid Oilers]

well, looks like i'll have some abortion bills to pay for the last 3 weeks. Damnit.. I cant believe i just asked if I should be worried...

im not exaggerating.. since she moved in, we've been at it everyday. though it wasnt 20 straight, it was something like 8 in a row, break for a day, 5 straight, break again, then 5 more counting yesturday

c'mon... there's gotta be a time in every guy's lives where they're doing it everyday when they've hooked up with a hot girl

[browna]

A running bet some buddies and I had back in the day at the U of C was who had the guts to show up for the first week of a WMST (Women's Studies) class (not register for it, just show up) and bring up, and argue, the notion of the "male pull out" method as the only viable method of birth control.

Two guys atteneded classes, but never had the balls to bring the topic up after observing some of their fellow classmates and listening to some of the "feminism" preached and discussed in that class.

[Flash Walken]

Originally Posted by Ha Ha Stupid Oilers

well, looks like i'll have some abortion bills to pay for the last 3 weeks

im not exaggerating.. since she moved in, we've been at it everyday. though it wasnt 20 straight, it was something like 8 in a row, break for a day, 5 straight, break again, then 5 more counting yesturday

c'mon... there's gotta be a time in every guy's lives where they're doing it everyday when they've hooked up with a hot girl

if they weren't using condoms, i bet they are fathers.

[Cowboy89]

The pull out method is kinda like reverse darwinism. The smart people would have used a better method of contraception, but yet less informed people pass on their genes . . .

[PYroMaNiaC]

Originally Posted by feartheflames

your options,

you: do a little snippy snippy

her: birth control, female condom, sponge, or tubes tied, diaphram

your way is the SCARY WAY

You also have the option of paying for the desired method of birth control whether it's you that does it or her.