Well, since we got married ~ 3/4s of a year ago now, I might be able to shed some light on things for you. These are some of the places that we were looking at. We started off with a smaller number, but then had about 110ish at our day. Anyways, as for ideas:
-The Highwood at SAIT. This is where we got married. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED. Very good service, great ambiance...and the place looks quite nice. All for a fairly decent deal. Can't say enough good things about them. Gave my sister and her b/f a tour of the big kitchen (after the meals were done), as they were interested in seeing things. The tour was done by the headchef. Were very good with the handful of young children present; staff were friendly with them, showed them a "secret room" (well it really wasn't so secret but it was great as it kind of made all the kids feel a little special), gave them a couple of kiddie food options to eat.
Anyways, can't say enough good things. Very flexible. Louise (the lady you will work with if you choose there) was great. We were planning from a distance, so it was kind of different that way. It took a tiny bit for her to warm up/get used to us, but she is extremely good. We ended up going for a full bar (i.e. us paying it all), but in the planning stage she suggested that a toonie bar was just as good, if not better. It was nice to know that they weren't just out to gouge us for the highest price possible. She has also been doing the weddings at the highwood forever i believe, so she has things down to a science.
Anyways, that said, some other places we looked at:
-Never actually physically looked inside (again we were at a distance), but the Calgary Chamber of Commerce has a very nice looking ballroom.
http://www.calgarychamber.com/abcalc...k_ball.cm?Open
-The Lougheed House.
http://www.lougheedhouse.com/
Not sure of size that it can hold but its pretty nice. They have a gorgeous front lawn anyways, when I was working downtown in Calgary I would often have my lunch there.
-The Deane House.
http://www.fortcalgary.ab.ca/popups/deanehouse.htm
I think it holds a bit smaller #s. Again, it kind of depends what you are looking for.
-COP. I believe that they have something up around near the ski jumps? Wasn't for us, but if you are into that, it looked pretty good.
-I can't quite remember the name, but there was a nice place in kanaskis...the lodge (just looked it up, not quite it). Not one of the "big names" but looked real nice and had some pretty good deals. Only thing you would have to consider is places to stay etc; we decided not to as we did not want people driving home after drinking, or the reverse - i.e. not being able to drink b/c they had to drive.
-River Cafe Restaurant in Princess Island Park? I can't remember if that was the one or not, but it was in the park.
Hmm, I will add more as I think of them.