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La Flames Fan · 02-21-2006, 12:04 AM

I'll say it, I don't care, I love you guys....

I just got an email from my (ex now) girlfriend. There was no text from her, but there was an email below it in the body of a previous email from her apparent other lover...Oh man...this is rich. He wrote that he had fun on the "date" and "glad she came out (and over) last night"...Of course, the dumb **** I am, I believed she was with her friend talking last night.

So my question now (and she knows she ****ed up and sent this to me), what do I do about this? I can't just let this one slide....

What do I do?

Patek23 · 02-21-2006, 12:15 AM

Well if we've learned anything don't reply with a nasty email. From past experiences the best route would probably be to to phone her or meet her in person and confront her on the issue don't get overly angry or heavy with the profanity but give her a heart felt release of your emotions, sometimes thats whats best for you and hurts her the most knowing how much she's pooched a good thing that you guys may have had going.

peter12 · 02-21-2006, 12:18 AM

Don't get involved... just end it.

Rakiet · 02-21-2006, 12:20 AM

Move on.
A tiger doesn't change its stripes.

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At the first sign of disrespect to you OR passing up an opportunity to spend time with you, you dump her. When she calls you wanting to go out or something, you tell her that her behaviour was unacceptable and that the only way you are going to let her hang out with you again is if she (make up whatever **** you want her to do because she broke the rules, ****, suck, whatever). If all you want from her is a kiss, get that. If all you want is for her to dress sexily, make her do that. If she doesn't agree to your terms tell her don't call you again until you are ready to meet my demands and HANG UP. The point of returning fox is that she is crawling back to you so you have the POWER in the relationship."

RougeUnderoos · 02-21-2006, 12:20 AM

That's kind of confusing. She sent you an e-mail but didn't write anything but did include the text of an e-mail from him?

I've got no advice beyond saying "letting this one slide" is not an option.

Draug · 02-21-2006, 12:21 AM

Yeah, dont send the nasty email - one bad click, and who knows what happens.

Talk to her face to face, and dump her like a sack of potatoes.

Whatever you do, dont get sucked into taking her back when you have the conversation. I went down that road, during my youth, and it was ugly.

Rakiet · 02-21-2006, 12:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Flaming Homer

Well if we've learned anything don't reply with a nasty email. From past experiences the best route would probably be to to phone her or meet her in person and confront her on the issue don't get overly angry or heavy with the profanity but give her a heart felt release of your emotions, sometimes thats whats best for you and hurts her the most knowing how much she's pooched a good thing that you guys may have had going.

you my friend need to read some mafia s**t

http://www.askmen.com/money/mafioso_100/130_mafia.html

FlamesAddiction · 02-21-2006, 12:23 AM

That's terrible man. Sorry to hear that happened to you.

My advice would be to go out meet some hot chicks and forget about that skank.

Actually, you should get her back too. Maybe forward the email to all of your mutual friends and her family members.

Rakiet · 02-21-2006, 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by RougeUnderoos

That's kind of confusing. She sent you an e-mail but didn't write anything but did include the text of an e-mail from him?

I've got no advice beyond saying "letting this one slide" is not an option.

It is the only option

CaptainCrunch · 02-21-2006, 12:24 AM

Dude its pretty obvious to me that she made that "mistake" on purpose, she's looking for a way out of the relationship, but dosen't want to initiate it herself, so she's hoping that you do it.

Believe me, nobody is stupid enough to send a blank email with a email about a date still attached, she wants you to dump her.

Either obligate her, or one up her and nail her sister or best friend, or mother and leave the tape in the VCR or on a website by mistake.

Rakiet · 02-21-2006, 12:25 AM

We're getting overloaded here with sissies...oh man...let me make this clear read, if you mentioned anything about feelings read this, real women want men, not wusses
link: http://www.askmen.com/money/mafioso_100/130_mafia.html

CaptainCrunch · 02-21-2006, 12:26 AM

nice mainflame, use her brothers name, she'll run for the hills.

rockstar · 02-21-2006, 12:27 AM

Sorry, LFF. That's bad news.

Tell her it's over, and make it happen. That chapter has unfortunately come to an unexpected and abrupt end. Nothing left to do now but move on.

peter12 · 02-21-2006, 12:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Rakiet

We're getting overloaded here with sissies...oh man...let me make this clear read, if you mentioned anything about feelings read this, real women want men, not wusses
link: http://www.askmen.com/money/mafioso_100/130_mafia.html

Dude just shut up.

Patek23 · 02-21-2006, 01:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Rakiet

you my friend need to read some mafia s**t

http://www.askmen.com/money/mafioso_100/130_mafia.html

Trust me. with my past legal troubles the last thing I need is to take advice from the mafia

Patek23 · 02-21-2006, 01:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Rakiet

We're getting overloaded here with sissies...oh man...let me make this clear read, if you mentioned anything about feelings read this, real women want men, not wusses
link: http://www.askmen.com/money/mafioso_100/130_mafia.html

Dude, I brought up the emotions thing but when push comes to shove I'd be willing to bet I got more manliness in my left nut than you do at all. A real man isn't afraid to tell his emotions instead of "suck it up" and other machoistic bull**** values thats for the real pussies who are afraid of saying and doing what they feel.

REDVAN · 02-21-2006, 01:23 AM

You could bite off her noce and swallow it.

No seriously, sometimes girls/guys do mean things in a relationship. There are many factors to consider, but I'd go for the simple and clean "never speak to her again."

STeeLy · 02-21-2006, 01:25 AM

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Originally Posted by CaptainCrunch

nice mainflame, use her brothers name, she'll run for the hills.

That's a pretty good one!!!LOL!

Tower · 02-21-2006, 01:47 AM

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Originally Posted by MainFlame

Buy a gun.

OR.....pretend nothing is wrong, get intimate with her, and call her the wrong name.

I new there was a reason I took you off the ingnore list - this post 10 points! out of ten.........

Your at -90 out off 100... lol j/k

"OH! OH OH! MAINFRAME!!!!!!"

toonmaster · 02-21-2006, 01:53 AM

drug her.....shave her head.....and let her wake up in a cancer ward

seriously though.....tell her to beat it...........then tell her to take a hike