I would not discuss the facts of your case in a public forum. Delete the specific details in the OP.
Do consult with a family lawyer asap.
http://www.lawsociety.ab.ca/public/lawyer_referral.aspx
The Lawyer Referral service is a program operated by the Law Society to assist members of the public in finding a lawyer who will provide the legal services they require. It is an information service and is not connected with Legal Aid - nor does it provide any form of financially subsidized legal service. A member of the public may phone toll free from anywhere in Alberta by dialing:
1-800-661-1095