Spirit Ridge in Osoyoos fits your criteria well.
https://www.hyatt.com/en-US/hotel/ca...it-ridge/ylwub
It's on the Nk'Mip first nation winery.
They have a tasting room, pool, great restaurant, small gym & nice rooms.
There's shuttle down to the beach and an easy drive out to other Osoyoos wineries, some walkable.
The room we booked was a 2 bedroom suite with a full kitchen & deck with BBQ.
After a long day of wine tasting, it's nice to be able to just relax by the grill, pop open a bottle you bought and relax.
We stayed here last summer and wine toured around Osoyoos, it was ideal & pricing was reasonable.
Burrowing owl accommodation looks nice too but it's much smaller so not sure if their pricing & availability are difficult. Not sure if they have kitchens either.
The only problem we had was catching fire season & having smoke everywhere; so air quality & views were poor.