I always question people thinking you should contact those of whom you've wronged to apologize and make amends. no matter if it's for sexual violence, being a jerk, or a recovering alcoholic.
without going into detail, I've been wronged by others as everyone has.
I sure as heck have no interest in having them contact me. what purpose does it serve? i've either forgiven the person or not. moved on or not. I have no interest in making them feel better about their actions.
oh you abused me years ago and now you're sorry? screw you. never contact me again.
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