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llwhiteoutll · 09-03-2017, 08:14 PM

I'd say go for it, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

I think if people would just be honest and up front with each other, they would be so much happier in the end. All this "the person who shows the least interest has all the power" and ghosting that goes on is what makes dating this days annoying on some level. You enjoyed her company and want to see her again and she presumably didn't think you were a freak since she told you where she works, so tell her. I certainly don't think that you need to go into it with the intention of a serious relationship right away, but if she asks what your expectations are, have an honest answer.

09-03-2017, 08:14 PM	#6
llwhiteoutll Powerplay Quarterback Join Date: Dec 2013 Exp:	I'd say go for it, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I think if people would just be honest and up front with each other, they would be so much happier in the end. All this "the person who shows the least interest has all the power" and ghosting that goes on is what makes dating this days annoying on some level. You enjoyed her company and want to see her again and she presumably didn't think you were a freak since she told you where she works, so tell her. I certainly don't think that you need to go into it with the intention of a serious relationship right away, but if she asks what your expectations are, have an honest answer.