I believe there is an element of truth to the idea that the ones in nursing homes, who receive the most visits by relatives or friends, often receive the most care and attention by the staff.
My wife and I used to pick an elderly gentleman up every Sunday and take him to church and out for lunch. His only relative, his sister, lived in Victoria. If he needed things like his teeth cleaned more often, or if he needed a warmer jacket, I would bring it to their attention. As a result, he ended up in one of the best rooms in the place, with a view of the mountains.
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