This is CRAZY!!
Parenting is not an easy task. When someone says that they are not ready to be a parent, that statement needs to be respected. Ha Ha has already demonstrated that he doesn't possess the tools yet to be an effective parent and, you're all screaming for his head. If forced into parenthood before he's equipped, how do you think the child will fare? The girl involved has demostrated the same lack of judgement and education that Ha Ha did. So the child will have two ill-equipped parents.
16 years from now, you'll all be screaming, "Where were the childs parents?"
Give them options. Teach them. Threats, derision, and name calling are not going to fix this mess.
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"When in doubt, make a fool of yourself. There is a microscopically thin line between being brilliantly creative and acting like the most gigantic idiot on earth. So what the hell, leap."
- Cynthia Heimel
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