I think it's a joke.
However, if it's not, the only thing you can do is go talk to her and be completely honest. Do not try and convince her that she should do one thing or another, but at the same time do not lie and pretend you're completely cool with this and ready for this if you're not. She needs to know ahead of time just exactly how on board you are. If she decides she's going to keep it, then step up and do everything you can for her and for the kid.
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