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Originally Posted by FireFly
Personally, I don't think a guy should go that all out for a one year anniversary. It smacks of trying too hard to please. Do you want to have to top that for every year for the rest of your life if you end up living that long with this woman? It's a never-ending game of come-uppance with yourself.
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No disrespect intended, but why does a simple act of showing love for another person have to have an alterior motive? I go through this type of thing every year at Christmas where family and relatives are comparing cost wise what each other gave and how they have to somehow match or do better. I tell them it's the thought that counts and one shouldn't worry about what the other does. This year I finally got through to them and they agreed.
Apologies to Finner for going off topic.