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Originally Posted by Erick Estrada
Nah. Appreciating beauty is not creepy. If you are sitting around with some friends and the topic comes up and you mention your son's 18 year old girlfriend is hot, to me that's nothing. If you won't shut up about it, start flirting with her, or complementing her on her looks, etc, then it's getting into creepy zone. What's the point of being attractive if people have to walk on egg shells around the topic?
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Originally Posted by Erick Estrada
You are taking things in a different direction. Mentioning to people that she's hot is not leering. I can glance quickly at any woman, determine she's hot, glance away and never think of her or see her again. Some of you always fixate on the extremes. My 19 year old son has an 18 year old girlfriend that's very attractive. That doesn't mean I'm staring at her at dinner or having thoughts about her. Sometimes I wonder what goes on in some of your heads to think that every man is sinister inside. Maybe you have an internal struggle, balancing the line between appreciating an attractive woman and creeping on it. I don't, and I don't think all men do.
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Nice try attempting to flip this and make us the creepy ones, but it's not working. Your second defence is you just notice in your head and that's that, but your first post was about commenting to your friends how hot your kids GF is.
And the reality is, we know reducing people to their looks at any age is a pretty toxic thing to do.