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BlackArcher101 · 07-23-2007, 11:12 AM

After sleeping on it... I'm going to say this. It's similar to what Buff said.

Take the chance. I seriously regret to this day not taking a chance earlier, and by the time my intentions were known it was too late. Going back, I would definetely try to go further than friends and make it known to her. Sadly, this is not an option anymore, but a lesson that I will know for next time.

If all else fails and he is not attached, you can always bring up the friends with benefits. But before starting anything, make sure you BOTH agree that once either of you have feelings for another, you bring it up and talk it over. Otherwise the problem will begin ballooning and now you have a bad situation that probably won't end well.

07-23-2007, 11:12 AM	#49
BlackArcher101 Such a pretty girl! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Calgary Exp:	After sleeping on it... I'm going to say this. It's similar to what Buff said. Take the chance. I seriously regret to this day not taking a chance earlier, and by the time my intentions were known it was too late. Going back, I would definetely try to go further than friends and make it known to her. Sadly, this is not an option anymore, but a lesson that I will know for next time. If all else fails and he is not attached, you can always bring up the friends with benefits. But before starting anything, make sure you BOTH agree that once either of you have feelings for another, you bring it up and talk it over. Otherwise the problem will begin ballooning and now you have a bad situation that probably won't end well. __________________ Last edited by BlackArcher101; 07-23-2007 at 11:14 AM.