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Originally Posted by J pold
Well its mostly social conditioning most men don’t realize that women want sex just as much as men, problem is if women had sex all the time with everybody they have the consequence of being called a “slut” or a “whore” which is socially defeating men on the other hand get praised for having more sexual partners
Another social perception that is a little off base is that women are the ones who get attached after causal sex, and while this does happen men do this a lot too…I know a lot of girls who will be attracted to a guy on a very plutonic level want to have sex and nothing more, but it’s the guy who gets a needy afterwards
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That is very true, no wonder most people agree that "friends with benefits" never really works...One person usually gets attached, espcially if the sex is good! This is not the case for me here because we're not having sex...unfortunately...yet. Like we were talking about last night, if it was just a matter of saying goodbye to a good lay, it wouldn't be so hard...it's giving up the rest of it that is harder.