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Originally Posted by suegate
Does anyone think it's possible to have attractive, even good-looking friends of the opposite sex who are interrested in all the same things, have the exact same love and passion for something like sports and yet remain friends without crossing any lines?  |
No, I don't believe that you can be friends with girls that you describe as attractive, have the same interests and passions.
The fact that you use the words attractive, good looking, passion and love in your question is a trouble spot.
All it takes is that one drunken evening after a hockey game when you think that she's going to reciprocate that clumsy move that your going to make, and she burns you down to your shoe laces and your friendship becomes an occassional phonecall, then a once every 6 month email.
The myth of jumping from the friendzone to the sexzone happens once in a blue moon. For the most part your doomed to a life of her whining to you about her jerk boyfriend who spends all of her money and treats her like crap and then dosen't take your advice, but uses you as a shoulder for that monkey thats on your back.
Get hooked on heroin or go dancing in a minefield, its easier then being stuck in the friends zone.