Quote:
Originally Posted by bc-chris
one thing i have learned over the years is that some people just have to constantly have some kind of 'drama' in their life - i don't understand it, but it just seems to be the way some folks are wired.
i think the best thing you can do is just be honest with the other person and explain that the first person specifically asked you to keep quiet about the stuff and you were just respecting their wishes
i, like you, do not enjoy being 'privy' to gossip, mostly becuz i just don't care. i've got enough stuff going on that i don't have the time or energy to get dragged into that crap!
|
A female friend of mine tried to drag me into a personal feud she had with her other friend. I simply said I don't want to hear about it and I certainly don't want you to put me in position where I have to take sides. I finished by saying I don't understand why the 2 of you feel the need to carry on this feud. Sit and settle it! End of discussion!