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Originally Posted by PepsiFree
And, the thing most people trying to make that clumsy point about consent are totally forgetting: especially if that person is a stranger who you just met.
If people think it’s “weird” to go around smacking to hurt, choking, or otherwise being rough with their partners (and especially strangers during their first encounter) and asking for consent before they do, then I’m sorry, those people have some very distorted, concerning views on sex and consent and are probably not good people.
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That's not what was said though. It's weird to ask for consent with every action. Can I kiss you? Can I take off your shirt? Can I touch your breast?
If you're doing extreme actions then I don't think consent is the problem. This wasn't a group into BDSM this was a group being ignorant kids. If you're doing something to "hurt" as you say then that's beyond the scope of the situation and something entirely different. Do you mind if I choke you to death? Do you mind if I beat the crap out of you?