Hart, McLeod, Dube, Foote, Formenton charged with sexual assault
Normal buttsmacking during sexual activity may look like pre discussion when in a trusted relationship about preferences with boundaries recognized.
It can also look like heat of the moment small moments escalating via signs from the women indicating enjoyment, like saying “harder”, “hit me”, and more crude verbiage of sexual play. It may also include other acts progressing to this.
It may also include checking in safely to ensure a person feels comfortable being able to speak openly and indicate discomfort. When discomfort occurs being able to re-engage trust before proceeding.
In either way, it shows an accurate reading of cues to progress into these types of acts that indicate enjoyment and pleasure being derived.
What it doesn’t look like is a bunch of drunk dudes piling in a room with a girl that was fed shots all night, that they barely know or have a comfort level or trust established, taking turns performing aggressive acts that aren’t in a setting where you can’t possibly read cues from a women, nor are they even being attempted to look for.
These are very very obvious differences and the comparison to possible accidental hip contact is obtuse, and a good example of rape culture.
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