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Originally Posted by blankall
If you were to ask a woman for consent before sexual ass-smacking, she'd probably get up and leave immediately.
The issue with Dube, potentially, was that he was doing it in a way designed to hurt, and he didn't have consent for the intercourse in the the first place.
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What? Definitely not. It's always ok to ask. You can even ask in cutesy or dirty ways if you want, but definitely ask.
If you're with a partner and a small very non-harmful question being posed is all that takes them to end the encounter, then I would think you should be considering what got you to that point in the first place.