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Originally Posted by Hackey
Ok fair enough. Then the issue would be the severity of the action more so than the consent of the action. Either she wasn't cool with any of it or she was okay with some of it and guys took it to far.
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Think this is misstating the issue, which remains "consent".
As @itse pointed out in an earlier post, people experienced in the field have things like "safe words" and as well to protect the person...AND they check in on "severity"....AFTER they have "consent".
So a person might be OK to play with light smacks, where they are not OK with a physically powerful hockey player applying who knows how much force....and can consent to light smacks whereas a full whack is out of bounds. It's definitely out of bounds if no consent was provided I'd think, regardless of "severity".