[Sylvanfan]

My perception might be off, but I do find that as soon as I do one little thing thats not how my wife likes it she jumps down my throat and has to lecture me on it every freaking time. Like I'm sorry that I used the towel on the left to dry my hands.....why do we need two hand towels by every sink? Whereas she constantly leaves dishes all over the counter, doesn't rinse off plates after she uses them and has smothered her food in sauce or had cereal and leaves the bowl partially full of milk. Yet when I ask her why she always does it and can't rinse stuff off and put it in the dishwasher the water works come out. Every time I end up being the bad guy it seems like. Same with money, I'm a big time A-hole for suggesting we should pay things like the mortgage, the car, the utilities and insurance before she can go spend money on clothes or useless knick knacks.....How am I supposed to win when I have to use logic!