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Originally Posted by albertGQ
Yeah, it was messed up. It was our first date. Picked her up from her place in Bear's Paw. She asked for a hug right away. IMO, that was the first sign that she was interested. I start driving to the Stampede. We were both dating someone else when we met about two months ago. We both confirm that we were now single. I asked her if she wanted to drink tonight. She said not that much because she works Saturday morning at 7am. So I told her as a precautionary measure, we can go back to her house, pick up her work stuff just in case we both get hammered and she can just crash at my house. She said yes. So there is the second sign that she is interested.
We get to the grounds and was walking around. She put my arm around her waist while we walk so I could "guide" her. Hint #3 right there. She is moving to Halifax for school in late August and kept mentioning how it sucks that we are just now starting to hang out and she is moving soon. Kept making me promise her that I would visit her. Hint #4
So we go watch the hypnotist and have some drinks. We flirt big time. She kisses my cheek and lips and I do the same. Hint#5. So we go on a couple rides and I win her a stuffed animal. I get her some cotton candy and she makes me lick them off her fingers all sexually. Hint #6
So she decides its best if she goes home and sleeps in her own bed and have her car with her for the next morning. I have no issues with that whatsoever. We hold hands the whole ride home back to her house. Hint #7. She tells me that I can sleep in her bed with her if I want, but only for a half hour. Of course I say yes. We get back to her place and her sister has a couple friends over for drinks and tells her that their mom ain't coming home that night. So she tells me I can stay the night in her bed with her if I wanted to. Hint #8.
So we go to bed and start doing stuff. And before I seal the deal, she admits that her and her boyfriend were still together and we can't have sex!!! I'm fine with that cause this chick is totally cool, not a slut (only slept with one guy in her life and that is her current bf), super hot, etc.
So I just roll over and five minutes later she asks me for a back massage. She lays on her stomach after taking off her top and undoes her bra. Hint#9. So of course my hand wanders and she is okay with that. She asks me if I like her @$$ and stuff like that.
So anyway, we just go to bed afterwards and when we wake up, she is so distant from me. No kisses, whatsoever. I'm thinking that she feels guilty. Fine by me, that is just human nature.
So we have mutual friends and we're both at the Big Easy last night. We start talking about Friday night and she tells me how none of that should've happened and was trying to blame 95% of what happened on me!!!
So should I have accepted the blame??? I totally did not accept 95% of it and claimed we were both 50% wrong (even though I felt I had done nothing wrong on my part). But she insisted that her part of the blame was minimal!
What is going on in this chicks head!?!??!? I have no idea, but would love to find out!!!
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Well, if as soon as I heard that she was still with her bf, that's a deal breaker for me. I'd be out of there. That suggest to me that she is untrustworthy. As for the blame, I'd say up to the point before the bedroom she is completely at fault for leading you on, so yeah, she definitely should share the blame.