This is excellent news. Great to hear about the assessment.
Your response is excellent, and your seeing it as gaslighting is a tremendous stride. They are just words from someone who may want the best for you but has no idea how to express it. She is trying to deflect. You did well not to engage any further and to separate and do your own thing. The T-shirt is a great way to see what is happening so you can react to it calmly. Good job. I am proud of you.
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