I knew a girl about 20 years ago. She married the guy she was dating at the time and they had at least two kids, maybe 3? They got divorced. She remarried and had another kid and go divorced.
I have lost track how many kids she has and what number of marriages she is on, but she's been divorced 3 times and has at least 5 kids. Every Christmas she hosts a family dinner that includes all the fathers of her kids. They all get along. I don't understand how that happens.
My sister-in-law has two kids from two dads. She has nothing to do with either kid. There was a movie about our nephew, maybe you've seen it? It's called Joker. Messed up situation all around. We still see our nephew, unfortunately, but haven't seen our niece in over 6 years.
So there you have two stark contrasting situations. I hate the 2nd situation (especially because it's somewhat close to home) but I admire the 1st situation. Whatever that chick is doing, she's doing it right.
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