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I don't have personal experience, but one of my best friends and his wife separated a few years ago. They have 2 girls together.

They each out the girls first above all else. While their marriage didn't work, their friendship still does. Nothing personal between them ever seems to be in front of the kids.

Neither deny the other. In fact, he's been on family vacation with her family as the girls were going.

I also had a great uncle who divorced his wife. Kids always came first and he and his ex would still hang out together.

Put your child's needs first. Don't be strict with time and vacations. Make sure they're loved and cared for by both parents.

Best of luck