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J pold · 11-01-2024, 08:59 AM

2/10

I'm 2 months into a separation from my wife. We've been together for 7 years and have 2 young kids. These past few months, I've been fighting it, saying I won't give up on our marriage. I have been going to therapy, self-reflecting, and understanding why this happened, which has been helpful, but I've been taking those actions in the hopes of the outcome I want - which is to try and get her back.

Over the weekend, some stuff came out that made me realize that I can't get her back and that I have to let her go and detach.

Deep down, I know that's the right thing to do, but god, it is hard to do. I know things get better with time, but I am just in the thick of it, and it's awful.

Edit: Does anyone know a reasonable and fair divorce lawyer in Calgary?

11-01-2024, 08:59 AM	#621
J pold Franchise Player Join Date: May 2004 Exp:	2/10 I'm 2 months into a separation from my wife. We've been together for 7 years and have 2 young kids. These past few months, I've been fighting it, saying I won't give up on our marriage. I have been going to therapy, self-reflecting, and understanding why this happened, which has been helpful, but I've been taking those actions in the hopes of the outcome I want - which is to try and get her back. Over the weekend, some stuff came out that made me realize that I can't get her back and that I have to let her go and detach. Deep down, I know that's the right thing to do, but god, it is hard to do. I know things get better with time, but I am just in the thick of it, and it's awful. Edit: Does anyone know a reasonable and fair divorce lawyer in Calgary? Last edited by J pold; 11-01-2024 at 09:46 AM.