I think it's important to acknowledge that things don't need to be Requiem-for-a-dream-levels of awful for mental health struggles to take hold. Bad things can happen all at once, or–as you're experiencing–it can simply be a slow leak of enjoyment until you realize how bad it's gotten.
One thing I believe to be damaging is to downplay where we're at. Sure, other people have more serious issues than you do. That can be great if you need to drum up a little gratitude, but taken too far and it becomes a "I shouldn't be feeling this way" situation.
Perhaps I'm reading too far into your post, but "I should be content" is a big old red flag for me. Who says you should be content? You've outlined some rather sh** happenings that you're dealing with, so I don't think you're out of line for feeling rough about that.
For me, whenever I find myself saying things in absolutes ("I don't see this ever getting better"), I entertain the idea that depression has gotten hold of the microphone. While that may seem obvious, I do have to remind myself that depression is a massive liar and quite a prick. He's also really hard to see when he's closest to you.
I think it actually sounds like you're doing a great job. You're remaining active and meeting with people despite being introverted, which is no small task. It feels like you're on a real heater of bad luck, but when people keep doing the right things, that luck can turn around. Not for sure, but statistics are on your side here.
Looking ahead 6 months is doing you no favours here. Most of us can't forecast what we'll have for lunch tomorrow let alone the state of our lives in half a year.
I can't relate to how you're feeling now, but I definitely could've a few years ago. Again, I can't say things will work out, but I can say life can change quick and often.
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