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Originally Posted by Buff
Not messed up to wonder at all. It is a huge event. An event of happiness. I wonder what I would have done in the same situation. Do you want to remember crying in grief during your wedding?
I've wondered what they would do too. I think they're probably in a situation where they can financially reschedule and not suffer. Many of us would feel forced to go through with it because money is spent and money to reschedule isn't there. Do you take the loss and have a happy occasion later? Do you go through with it anywhy? No wrong answers. Just hard decisions.
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Something I've thought about as well. I don't think there is a wrong answer, but this is something that I don't think I could go through with if it was my wedding. this is something that I would find insurmountable to get through... Putting my own happiness above the obvious grief of my own and my families grief.
The chaos of having to deal with cancelling or rearranging the wedding and logistics, but then having to handle it under the duress of this heavy heavy grief... I feel for the family so much.