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Originally Posted by You Need a Thneed
Obviously very traumatic for your daughter's girlfriend.
But please check in with your daughter too. This can have trauma for her too - which she may be scared to express because it seems (to her) relatively insignificant.
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Yes we have been talking to them both and discussing everything together, as a group. We let them talk to us and tell us how they want to move forward. This is hard for both of them as they are very close. They have both been very open to us and letting us in on everything.
It was almost a good thing for my daughter in a round about sort of way. She wanted to tell us everything that was going on but her girlfriend did not want to let anyone else know it was just the two of them that were sharing this. Now that it is all out in the open it is like a huge weight is off her chest.