[Sylvanfan]

I'm also one of those losers who has a multi-generation home. Inlaw suite for my Mom in the basement. But I did it in 2018 and I shutter to think how hard Covid would have been on her if she'd had to live alone thru that. She had a hip replacement done a few weeks ago with a day notice for the surgery. So yes it is inconvenient a bit at times and like any MIL she can be a bit tough on my spouse. But I know she's okay, I can help her not worry about inflation, and I do have a nicer house to live in. So for me the pro's outweigh the con's. With two kids it's not like I'm hosting a group orgy every week this infringes on my freedom.