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Originally Posted by Cali Panthers Fan
Again, I don't have much to complain about, but I find myself often bored. Suburban life is comfy, but a little dull. I don't have any major interests to keep me occupied these days, and I don't have a lot of friends to just hang out with. Life is about work and family duties, and that's about it. I don't see that changing much anytime soon. Hence why I'm bummed out.
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Quoting you here because this is where I feel too. As mentioned I've gone from a 4-5 to a good 6 recently but now I feel like higher than a 6 is an actual possibility where before 6 was a best case scenario.
I find I have much more energy lately and have the actual desire to go out and do things. Make some friends.
The problem is I'm still inherently lazy lol.
My wife and I rarely do things together anymore, our interests just don't really match much. We get along well and work together well. But on the best-friend/lover -> great-roommate scale things seem to be sliding to the right. But blowing it up seems like a recipe for making things a lot worse.
So I'm trying to decide what it is I can/want to do to try and get past that 6. Do I need to join some kind of social thing to get more friends? Get deep into a hobby (I've always been a starter not a keep-going-er)?