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Originally Posted by memphusk
Not really. If family wants you to make decisions that are better for them they're not family. They're ####ty friends.
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If you ask for advice/input, chances are no matter who the person is, their person preference will play into the response in some way, even if it's unconsciously.
That includes family.
Unless you are surrounded by the saintliest and most selfless people who only have interest in being cheerleaders regardless of which direction you're contemplating.. (in which case, lucky you!).. then chances are they have an opinion.
We all wish what you're suggesting is the case. But I think that's more wishful thinking, at least when it comes to most people.