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Originally Posted by Whynotnow
That sucks for both of you, hurts to hear that. My best advice is get a professional to help you, sooner rather than later. You may have more options now then you would if you let this get to a worse spot.
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What kind of help? Like Go fund me?
Using the word ruined is a bit overdramatic on my behalf.
I'm not missing payments or behind on my mortgages. Still buying my own food and paying my utilities. But the $1300 a month I was able to save until this past year is now being used to pay for increases in Mortgage payments, grocery costs, property taxes, and Insuance. If those same things go up that much again on me in the next couple of years, than I'll be panic selling some so called assets.
I'm the dumb first wave of idiot who got to feel the brunt of the post Covid interest rate environment. With a family...didn't get my houses paid off by age 45 which will draw a lot of contempt from people in this forum as being terribly irresponsible. I'm stretched hard byalm these recent increases and zero personal wage growth. If a pro can help me double my wages...that would be nice...but I can't see how that happens unless I severely upgrade myself to move to a completely new field of work.